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2 minutes ago, Bernard Gui said:

You are keeping records? Interesting. Do you know Bob Erickson? 

Nope.  Just been here long enough to know the cast of characters who will start posting on any thread remotely involving homosexuality.  No idea who Bob Erickson is.

2 minutes ago, Bernard Gui said:

Decades of keeping silent in faculty rooms and training seminars. 

At the University level?  Not grade school.  Not Jr. High/Middle School.  Not High School.  Not a community college.

Posted (edited)
17 minutes ago, Bernard Gui said:

False. I said hijacking it for any personal agenda: “Hijacking it for whatever personal agenda one has will lead to chaos down the road.” 

Have you watched his talk? Was he hijacking it when he talked about Enos and his prayful struggles? The awesomeness of BYU? How his mom who was diagnosed with terminal cancer was able to be there with him? What about when he mentioned being run over by a deer? Only when he said he was gay? Is that something we aren’t allowed to say in a church with an “office of belonging” that “loves” it’s LGBTQ members? Apparently so. The talk was poignant and amazing. 
 

(you can tell how upset everyone was at his hijacking by how much applause that line got)
 

 

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Posted
1 minute ago, ttribe said:

Nope.  Just been here long enough to know the cast of characters who will start posting on any thread remotely involving homosexuality.  No idea who Bob Erickson is.

At the University level?  Not grade school.  Not Jr. High/Middle School.  Not High School.  Not a community college.

Interesting that you don’t keep track but can form such judgments. You should get to know Bob. You can find him on Facebook. 

My comments were about hijacking graduations for personal agendas. You are the one obsessed with homosexuality. 

I have taught at all levels k through junior college. I have numerous friends and family who teach at the rarified levels of The University. I’m not a stranger to the Academy. 

But all that is beside the point.


 

Posted (edited)
10 minutes ago, SeekingUnderstanding said:

Have you watched his talk? Was he hijacking it when he talked about Enos and his prayful struggles? The awesomeness of BYU? How his mom who was diagnosed with terminal cancer was able to be there with him? What about when he mentioned being run over by a deer? Only when he said he was gay? Is that something we aren’t allowed to say in a church with an “office of belonging” that “loves” it’s LGBTQ members? Apparently so. The talk was poignant and amazing. 
 

(you can tell how upset everyone was at his hijacking by how much applause that line got)
 

 

Yes. I watched it and followed the events here and elsewhere when it first became an issue. My dad ran over a fawn when I was eight. Traumatic for me and my two little nieces. 
I don’t believe graduation addresses are the appropriate venue for airing personal agendas, no matter the applause line. I don’t expect anyone to agree with me. 

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Posted
4 minutes ago, Bernard Gui said:

Interesting that you don’t keep track but can form such judgments. You should get to know Bob. You can find him on Facebook. 

My comments were about hijacking graduations for personal agendas. You are the one obsessed with homosexuality. 

I have taught at all levels k through junior college. I have numerous friends and family who teach at the rarified levels of The University. I’m not a stranger to the Academy. 

But all that is beside the point.
 

That's two "I know you are, but what am I?" responses...

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3 minutes ago, ttribe said:

That's two "I know you are, but what am I?" responses...

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Keeping track again, I see. Do you have a little black notebook?

I hope that’s not coffee.

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Posted

I'm not sure I understand the risk to professional affiliations and certifications.  Because I don't see any discrimination on the issue in the school itself, is it solely because of BYU's association with the church that puts the school's professional affiliations and certifications  risk?

Posted
14 hours ago, Fair Dinkum said:

He’s almost tempting those tasked with accreditation to de-certify and unaccredite BYU and I suspect they’ll take him up on his challenge 

That's what I kept thinking, glad to see I'm not the only one. Often I think the church should lay low, this instance for sure. I have relatives on my husband's side and my own side that have a great love for BYU, like Elder Holland has. My uncle was a professor at BYU. And my BIL and SIL have children that attended and one was a BYU cheerleader who met her husband there, he was a cheerleader, I thought he was the Mascot too, but not positive now. He now teaches at BYU, and I'm pretty sure that will affect him if BYU isn't accredited any longer. Add another to my long list that I'm not going to bore people with, my mother attended BYU and loved watching all BYU sports.

Posted (edited)
1 hour ago, Bernard Gui said:

Sad, but necessary if it comes to that. Perhaps Elder Holland sees a different future than some of us. 

As much as I love BYU and valued, greatly, my education there, how can a parent send a child to a university where credits won't apply to transfers or graduate school?  

Can you see what is about to happen?  Your BYU graduates can't go to law schools, medical schools.  They can't get masters in psychology at the University of Utah.  

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Just now, Bob Crockett said:

As much as I love BYU and valued, greatly, my education there, how can a parent send a child to a university where credits won't apply to transfers or graduate school?  

What indication do you see that BYU is in danger of losing its accredidation? Notwithstanding Elder Holland's "stand alone" comment, all indications I see point to BYU and the Church moving heaven and earth not to run afoul of that. Even if it means compromising on standards, doctrine, etc. 

If BYU has to sunset to maintain standards and doctrine, then I'm okay with that. But, I don't trust BYU/the Church to truly "stand alone" when the chips are down. We shall see. I really hope I'm wrong!

Posted
14 minutes ago, Bob Crockett said:

As much as I love BYU and valued, greatly, my education there, how can a parent send a child to a university where credits won't apply to transfers or graduate school?  

Can you see what is about to happen?  Your BYU graduates can't go to law schools, medical schools.  They can't get masters in psychology at the University of Utah.  

Indeed!

An effective way to isolate the Saints and minimize their influence - unless they choose a school with a decent Institute. It may come to that. I don’t know that UofU would qualify…..😬

Posted
14 minutes ago, rongo said:

What indication do you see that BYU is in danger of losing its accredidation? Notwithstanding Elder Holland's "stand alone" comment, all indications I see point to BYU and the Church moving heaven and earth not to run afoul of that. Even if it means compromising on standards, doctrine, etc. 

If BYU has to sunset to maintain standards and doctrine, then I'm okay with that. But, I don't trust BYU/the Church to truly "stand alone" when the chips are down. We shall see. I really hope I'm wrong!

In what ways has BYU compromised "on standards, doctrine, etc.?"

Posted
23 minutes ago, SeekingUnderstanding said:

Why is saying “I’m gay” viewed as a personal agenda in a loving church? Why is that a personal agenda and not the part about his mom or experiences with the atonement? What does it mean for the gay youth of the church to be told they belong, but talking about their orientation can’t be done?

Consider the venue and the occasion. Get to know Bob. It would be very worth your time. 

Posted
16 minutes ago, rongo said:

What indication do you see that BYU is in danger of losing its accredidation? Notwithstanding Elder Holland's "stand alone" comment, all indications I see point to BYU and the Church moving heaven and earth not to run afoul of that. Even if it means compromising on standards, doctrine, etc. 

If BYU has to sunset to maintain standards and doctrine, then I'm okay with that. But, I don't trust BYU/the Church to truly "stand alone" when the chips are down. We shall see. I really hope I'm wrong!

Interesting. 

Posted

from Elder Holland:  "...we have to be careful that love and empathy do not get interpreted as condoning and advocacy, or that orthodoxy and loyalty to principle not be interpreted as unkindness or disloyalty to people. As near as I can tell, Christ never once withheld his love from anyone, but he also never once said to anyone, ‘Because I love you, you are exempt from keeping my commandments.’ We are tasked with trying to strike that same sensitive, demanding balance in our lives.”

I don't see anything difficult about striking that balance, even if some people don't like that balanced approach and would rather BYU stand on only one side of the issue.  Nobody is exempt from our Lord's commandments.  All anyone can do is teach correct principles and let others govern themselves.  Nobody can force anyone else to be obedient to God, and God wants all of us to choose who to obey.  We will all be judged by our works.

Posted

Is the Church so fragile that people freak out when someone mentions that they are gay in a commencement address?  Does the Church need to micromanage thought so much that it feels threatened if a professor has a different view about a particular doctrine?  Are the students so fragile that anything told to them at BYU will threaten their own belief in the Church?

What next? Telling Church members what they are allowed to read about on the internet or what books they should read?  Or what friends they should hang out with?  

This is about the Church having absolute control over the narrative taught at BYU.  What is most difficult to understand, is given the history of the Church trying to have complete contol over its history and how that turned out.  I guess some lessons are difficult to learn.

Posted
2 hours ago, rongo said:

If BYU has to sunset to maintain standards and doctrine, then I'm okay with that. But, I don't trust BYU/the Church to truly "stand alone" when the chips are down. We shall see. I really hope I'm wrong!

BYU is a business, not the church itself and as such it's not reasonable to impose it's beliefs on the school as it does its own members. No different than the hotels it owns.

Posted
1 hour ago, ttribe said:

In what ways has BYU compromised "on standards, doctrine, etc.?"

It hasn't, yet, not outright, but I have concerns that storm clouds are looming on the horizon. Our family lost interest in BYU over these concerns (my father and I graduated from there, and I have fond memories of BYU in the 90s), and children from multiple friends of ours have returned changed by their professors (some have left the Church, and others have developed philosophies hostile to the Church). Elder Holland acknowledged this with the talk itself (why else talk about the need for BYU to see that it doesn't go down this road?), and also when he specifically said, 

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"Imagine the pain that comes with a memo like this one I recently received. These are just a half-dozen lines from a two-page document:

“You should know,” the writer says, “that some people in the extended community are feeling abandoned and betrayed by BYU. It seems that some professors (at least the vocal ones in the media) are supporting ideas that many of us feel are contradictory to gospel principles, making it appear to be about like any other university our sons and daughters could have attended. Several parents have said they no longer want to send their children here or donate to the school.

“Please don’t think I’m opposed to people thinking differently about policies and ideas,” the writer continues. “I’m not. But I would hope that BYU professors would be bridging those gaps between faith and intellect and would be sending out students that are ready to do the same in loving, intelligent and articulate ways. Yet, I fear that some faculty are not supportive of the Church's doctrines and policies and choose to criticize them publicly. There are consequences to this. After having served a full-time mission and marrying her husband in the temple, a friend of mine recently left the church. In her graduation statement on a social media post, she credited [such and such a BYU program and its faculty] with the radicalizing of her attitudes and the destruction of her faith.”

https://newsroom.churchofjesuschrist.org/article/elder-jeffrey-r-holland-2021-byu-university-conference

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I spoke of this elsewhere, but the transformation of the McKay School of Education has been appalling to me. The most recent Alumni magazine from the department was filled with educational theories about social justice, systemic racism in education, etc. that wouldn't surprise me coming from other universities. The cover article encouraged structure-free classrooms where students aren't constrained by rules, the clock, requirements, etc. as the way to stop being racist to our BIPOC students A very far cry from my BYU training in the 90s (and, I've tried to envision and imagine how such a free-range classroom would actually function, outside the imagination of the ivory tower. That it is heartily cheered on by academia would be no comfort to a new teacher being eaten alive by a class!). 

A recent BYU news release extolled the virtues of "princess culture" as a way to stamp out "toxic masculinity" in boys.

https://news.byu.edu/intellect/byu-study-finds-that-princess-culture-can-heal-toxic-masculinity-over-time

I note that while the link still has "toxic," it's been changed to "hegemonic masculinity" in the text. I'm not sure what the thought process for changing from "toxic" to "hegemonic" is, but I think it might be intended to address concerns of people like me. It isn't successful in my case. Take a look at the photo gallery at the bottom of the article (boy with his princess doll). 

There are many different things coming out of BYU that seem to many people to be signaling a seismic shift at BYU. The Brethren (or, at least Elder Holland) seem to see the need to address this with words, but it remains to be seen whether they dare to confront it by actions that would be criticized. They seem very criticism-averse lately. 

Posted
21 minutes ago, california boy said:

Is the Church so fragile that people freak out when someone mentions that they are gay in a commencement address?  

No, but a few members might be, maybe never ever having seen or heard from a real; live gay person before.  And at BYU of all places?  That may have been a rare moment that had never ever happened before.

21 minutes ago, california boy said:

Does the Church need to micromanage thought so much that it feels threatened if a professor has a different view about a particular doctrine?

No,  Why do you ask?

21 minutes ago, california boy said:

 Are the students so fragile that anything told to them at BYU will threaten their own belief in the Church?

No.  Why are you asking these questions?

21 minutes ago, california boy said:

What next? Telling Church members what they are allowed to read about on the internet or what books they should read?  Or what friends they should hang out with?  

You think so?  You think someone would say that?  Besides you, I mean?

21 minutes ago, california boy said:

This is about the Church having absolute control over the narrative taught at BYU.

You think so?  Maybe you're right.   It is BYU so maybe BYU should determine what is taught at the BYU.

21 minutes ago, california boy said:

 What is most difficult to understand, is given the history of the Church trying to have complete control over its history and how that turned out.  I guess some lessons are difficult to learn.

Thank you for giving me these thoughts to ponder.  I plan to think about something else now.

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