Yes, I play the whole time nearly (never did that with my own, too busy cleaning and watching other kids but tried to) she'll say what she wants to do. Somewhat of a routine. I think these temper tantrums stem from lack of sleep perhaps, starting kindergarten, being the only child and she constantly talks as if she will be a big sister one day. But I'm not sure if she will be getting one. I don't ask her parents, I figure if they want to tell me they will.
She does get spoiled by her other grandma, maybe a bit too much. I know they say grandparents are allowed, but when you tend weekly, each of us did, then they turn into your own child somewhat. I'm trying to figure it out, and how best to react.
You have suggested things I had not thought of. Appreciate the time you spend with me and others on the board. Hope you get some more sleep. Three hours was all you got? If remembering right. You take care Calm!