These broad brush stroke comments about the "Ex- and Anti-Mormon crowd" are always so lovely to read.
The OP brings up Strong's book, but rather than addressing what is actually in Strong's book, there is the same old discussion of how those of us have left having been "deceived" and "wayward" and not "staying faithful." For some reason there is no consideration for the Ex-LDS person who after spending decades living as a faithful member, really wanting it to be true, building a life around the principles taught as the Gospel, and who experiences the heartache of unfulfilled prayers, prophecies, and scriptural promises, combined with studying the un-sanitized accounts from Church history and simply concludes that it just isn't true.
I desperately wanted it to be true. So much so that my brain went into dangerous places for my own safety under the fear that I was destroying eternity for an entire family. Being compared to a person of bad "soil" or to being a "tare" or being called a "covenant breaker" (not in this thread) after spending 40 years trying to do everything right as a member is not just insulting, it is just plain hurtful. If you want to learn something from Strong's book and from us as former members, how about you try learning that we are still pretty much the same people, that we didn't take this decision lightly, that it was a painful and terrifying experience, and that we are neither traitors nor enemies. Just as the stages of grief suggest, many of us may go through periods of anger and lashing out. Some may even become antagonistic. But the vast majority of just fade away and try our best to navigate family relationships, friendships, careers, and other daily concerns that are still impacted by the Church.