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I didn't want to derail the other topic.  But what are your thoughts on Robert Kirby?  

 

http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/news/58507634-78/mormons-church-meet-real.html.csp

 

He doesn't seem to mind to call out stupidity or false representations amongst his own.  This article was brought to my attention by a good LDS friend of mine who thought I would get a kick out of it.  He said it was a lot closer of a representation that he had and continues to witness in his 30+ years in the church.  

 

 

 

 

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I didn't want to derail the other topic.  But what are your thoughts on Robert Kirby?  

 

http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/news/58507634-78/mormons-church-meet-real.html.csp

 

He doesn't seem to mind to call out stupidity or false representations amongst his own.  This article was brought to my attention by a good LDS friend of mine who thought I would get a kick out of it.  He said it was a lot closer of a representation that he had and continues to witness in his 30+ years in the church.  

 

He's not an anti-mormon, but he certainly doesn't represent his religion in the best light to the rest of the world.

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I didn't want to derail the other topic.  But what are your thoughts on Robert Kirby?  

 

http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/news/58507634-78/mormons-church-meet-real.html.csp

 

He doesn't seem to mind to call out stupidity or false representations amongst his own.  This article was brought to my attention by a good LDS friend of mine who thought I would get a kick out of it.  He said it was a lot closer of a representation that he had and continues to witness in his 30+ years in the church.  

 

I've always loved Kirby.  He is willing to show the side of Mormons that doesn't get presented in the media.  The human side.

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I've read his columns for years from afar (grew up in IL, went to BYU, lived in UT a few years but have lived in WA for the last 13 years, and love UT despite all its idiosyncrasies; we spend, cumulatively, a good month of every year there with family). I love his candid and humorous take on all of the quirky things about Mormon culture. We really are a peculiar people. Thankfully the gospel is being spread and the culture is slowly catching up to its pure doctrines.

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Robert Kirby always cracks me up, and this one had me chuckling all the way through.

 

I haven't seen "Meet the Mormons" and may not bother, but it is probably no more harmful or inaccurate than say Andy Griffith's "Mayberry RFD."  These charming and and well-manicured vignettes are probably just as wholesome as the "And i'm a Mormon" series, even if they are inaccurate.  So what?!

 

If you want something entirely accurate and down-to-earth about tawdry human relationships, then take a look at Bob Redford's award-winning "Ordinary People" (1981), https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UZYHe8IAlto , or his "Downhill Racer" (1969),  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jVaIUc-atxo .

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I liked the comments from people who said they didn't need to go see "Meet the Mormons" they already have, they're our neighbors.

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He is definitely not an anti-Mormon.  He makes fun of our culture, that's all.

 

When I was in college (20 years ago) I bought and read his book "Sunday of the Living Dead".  Laugh out loud funny.  I just checked, you can buy it used on Amazon for basically just the cost of shipping.

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He's not an anti-mormon, but he certainly doesn't represent his religion in the best light to the rest of the world.

I agree with this assessment.

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He was quoted in general conference a few years back so he can't be too anti.

 

The devil has been quoted in General Conference so that is not much of an endorsement.

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I'm not a fan of his articles but i don't think he's doing anything wrong.

 

Now that i have more time to elaborate i just wanted to explain why i don't like his articles.

 

I don't have a problem with people who lampoon themselves or their culture.  Mormonism can be pretty funny, and everyone does stupid stuff sometimes.  What bugs me about Kirby is the venue he uses to lampoon Mormons and the LDS church.

  

In my family, if you need to vent about a family member, you only vent to people who you know love that family member or who you know will understand that YOU love that person and will be kind.  You don't ever vent to someone who doesn't like the person.  Nothing good comes of such venting for you, and it will almost certainly do damage to your family member in the eyes of the person you are venting to..

 

And that's what i see Kirby doing.  He's venting to those who do not at all like the church.  Maybe it's an incorrect perception but to me, the Salt Lake Tribune is not a paper friendly to Mormonism, and more especially it's readership seems to largely disdain the church.  While Kirby's brand of opinion piece might be completely innocent in some environments, i don't think it's a good idea in the SLT.

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I grew up in the LDS family Kirby describes. My mom, who is a perfectionist, would constantly point out the one or two families in the ward whose kids were perfect or so at least they seemed on the outside. Looking back on that I realize how difficult it was for both my mom and my family to try and meet this unrealistic standard, which, in all likelihood wasn't even being met by these other families. If people truly want to "Meet the Mormons" they should attend a few deacons classes, go to few ward basketball games and participate in a few ward socials. Those are the true Mormons.

 

I think examples of imperfection go much further in helping us and others realize who we are and where we need to go.

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Kirby makes it easier to relate to Mormons.  No arrogance just honesty.  Nothing wrong with that.

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Now that i have more time to elaborate i just wanted to explain why i don't like his articles.

 

I don't have a problem with people who lampoon themselves or their culture.  Mormonism can be pretty funny, and everyone does stupid stuff sometimes.  What bugs me about Kirby is the venue he uses to lampoon Mormons and the LDS church.

  

In my family, if you need to vent about a family member, you only vent to people who you know love that family member or who you know will understand that YOU love that person and will be kind.  You don't ever vent to someone who doesn't like the person.  Nothing good comes of such venting for you, and it will almost certainly do damage to your family member in the eyes of the person you are venting to..

 

And that's what i see Kirby doing.  He's venting to those who do not at all like the church.  Maybe it's an incorrect perception but to me, the Salt Lake Tribune is not a paper friendly to Mormonism, and more especially it's readership seems to largely disdain the church.  While Kirby's brand of opinion piece might be completely innocent in some environments, i don't think it's a good idea in the SLT.

I don't think that showing our human side makes us any less appealing as a church and a faith community. Probably more appealing.

But maybe Scott could talk the powers that be into luring Kirby over to the DN... That way he'd have a higher percentage of Mormons reading his articles. :)

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