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Since some here might be as easily distractable as I am, posting this before I forget about it until it is too late!

Advice to be kinder? Absolutely necessary. More christlike behavior is a crucial necessary daily pursuit of which most of us fall short. Anonymity has simply allowed the deeper flawed self to be exposed. We should probably look deeper.

Forgive me for retrogressing, but I prefer to use scriptural definitions for various principles. The definition of faith has already been given in several posts. Faith is a principle of action. It is a virtue like Hope and Charity: These three principles or virtues bring the "fountain of all righteousness." They are in operation throughout our progression. In one instance it says that you have to first have hope (verse 40) and, then it says that without faith there cannot be any hope. So, which comes first hope or faith? Don't get caught in the sequential trap. These virtues aren't sequential. They are of different dimensions. We can sometimes understand things by their opposites: (Note: Intellectual refers to the "mind" and Emotional refers to the "heart.") By inspection we see that a Faith is of the mind and is just as much a principle of action as it's opposite: Fear. Hope is of the Heart because it's component is Care. Now to use the scriptural definition of Truth: Truth is a correct knowledge of things in the present, past, and future. Please note that Faith is vain and fruitless if it operates on anything but Truth. By symmetry, Knowledge is gained by diligence and Intelligence is gained by obedience. Obedience is in accordance to the knowledge gained. Intelligence is the Light of Truth. (A conscious awareness of internal and external things in the time domain.) Therefore, What? It seems to me that truth has to be a static, not dynamic, thing that would not change in the sphere that it is placed in. So, Faith that is based on Truth is no longer Faith, but Knowledge. The proper application of that Knowledge is Intelligence. The proper application of Intelligence is Wisdom.

Like, I presume, many people, have regretted things that I have said, and also done, while younger. However, with age, comes a better understanding and knowledge. The things that I have said and done while younger, I try and turn from a regret, into a lesson learned.

So… ICE?

I agree that Fascist and Nazi should be tightly defined and used for the correct political ideology. It is extreme enough it needs to be precisely used so it can used for an effective warning***. I did not like it when I noticed Nazi started to be used in a humorous way (soup Nazi which mainstreamed the usage iirc, grammar Nazi, etc) and I still don’t. I see a related*** problem with term “socialist”, though that it is typically misapplied too broadly in politics in my experience….though maybe I am just out of the humor loop these days. In the US it is pretty meaningless, just tells me the other thinks the person is too liberal. ***I don’t think “socialist” is inherently problematic as an ideology, unlike fascism. Socialism is not inherently violent for one thing. So I see it should be kept precise for informational purposes in political dialogue, not because we need warnings against signs of it, though it can go too far just like capitalism.

When I stop seeing people misunderstanding something someone said or did, and mobs attack them because of that misunderstanding and ruin their lives, maybe I will worry less about people knowing who I am. When I can be in another country and ask about where I can find such and such or how to do ____ without worrying that someone will rob my house while I'm gone then I'll think about not being anonymous. When I don't have to worry about what people will do to my loved ones or me because I advocate for refugees and other immigrants, then I will consider not being anonymous. I read through the transcript on YouTube, and it seems to me that he is less worried about actually being anonymous and more worried about how being anonymous may tempt you to be unkind and cruel. I try to be the same person I am online as I am offline. I try to be kind. I try to love friend and foe. I try to be empathetic. I understand that isn't the case for everyone. Until I feel safer communicating online, I'm always going to take some measures of anonymity. I'm aware that people will be able to figure out who I am anyway, but I hope that the measures I take can reduce how many people try.

My first response was thinking he is not female. Probably never homeless, etc. I wondered if he considered the other side of life and figured it wasn’t likely to be relevant to his audience, who demographically are more likely well off I believe. I do think avoiding anonymity would be best if one could trust those in power, but I prefer the teaching of acting morally no matter if someone knows who you are or not. I get that we are more likely to be civil if we know we can get in trouble if we are not, but if that’s the reason we allow ourselves to cross lines, we are in need of moral and emotional maturity. What if the Ku Klux Khan are the ones in power with access to one’s personal info? I worry about minorities—which LDS members are in most places—and any others not particularly welcomed in China and Russia. Not happy with some stuff going on in the US right now as well. In Canada, my husband had a couple of students had changed their names, the ultimate anonymity, so they can join the Church….with the approval of the First Presidency. We are much more likely to be able to change our own behaviour rather than others. Perhaps that is why he focused on the individual a the potential abuser rather than then a potential victim.

A few direct answers: On Nehor and Charlie Kirk: Nehor did not explicitly endorse the killing (he never said “yes, it was justified” or “someone should have done it”). When asked directly whether he endorsed shooting a different person he had labeled a fascist, he answered “Do I endorse shooting the guy? No.” What he did say about Kirk: He called Kirk a fascist (“cut from the same cloth” as the person he said “needs to be punched in the face”). When asked if Kirk “had it coming,” he replied: “Live by the gun, die by the gun.” He stated: “I do find it somewhat satisfying that a staunch opponent of gun control got shot that time instead of some school kid. In that sense he was much more deserving of it happening. Not fully deserved but more than a lot of the actual victims his rhetoric perpetuates. . . . I do not mourn his death. Nothing of value was lost.” Nehor’s position is one of non-mourning and partial satisfaction that Kirk was the victim rather than others, coupled with the view that Kirk’s own rhetoric made him more “deserving” of being shot than some other people. He stops short of saying the murder itself was morally right or that he endorses it, and he has elsewhere preferred non-lethal violence (punching) over killing because the latter risks creating a martyr. The overall tone is that Kirk’s death was not a loss and was, in his view, more deserved than many other gun deaths. On the moral constraint: Yes, there is a moral constraint against killing ideological opponents outside of a recognized state of war between nation-states, and even then only by lawful combatants under the laws of war. Killing a civilian political commentator, activist, or elected official because someone has decided to label him a “fascist” is murder, not legitimate resistance. The fact that fascist regimes of the 1930s–40s committed mass murder does not license private individuals in 2026 to apply that label to domestic political opponents and treat them as legitimate targets. On the hypothetical about me: If someone took a position I hold and treated it as evidence that I therefore support assassination or other extreme violence associated with people who share that position, I would call it a bad-faith inference. Agreement on one or more issues does not equal endorsement of every method or outcome associated with other people who hold that issue. That is the same standard I am applying here. Nehor’s endorsement of killing actual fascists in an actual war does not, by itself, mean he endorses killing people labeled “fascists” today. It does, however, make the imprecise use of the label consequential, because others are already using it that way. On wartime assassinations: I would not "celebrate" the assassination of Hitler or his high command by a private resistance member if it occurred outside the framework of the ongoing war between states. Within that war, the killing of enemy combatants and the leadership of a regime that had initiated aggressive war and was committing mass murder was treated as legitimate under the laws of war. The distinction is the existence of a formal, recognized armed conflict between states, not a private determination that someone is an ideological enemy. On bin Laden and al-Zarqawi: I do not disapprove of those operations. Both were enemy combatants (or leaders of organizations engaged in ongoing armed attacks against the United States and its allies) targeted in the context of an authorized armed conflict. That is different from a private citizen deciding that a domestic political figure is a “fascist” and therefore a legitimate target for assassination. The practical problem remains the same: once “fascist” (or “nazi”) becomes a free-floating epithet that anyone can apply to anyone, and once that epithet is treated as sufficient justification for violence, the distinction between wartime military necessity and peacetime political murder collapses. I am troubled by that. Thanks, -Smac

Pyreaux, Thanks. We are already looking at alternatives. I was just curious about that one method.

Anonymity is critical for self-protection, particularly from those with more power. When I ran a game server, I mandated anonymity and continually reminded my young players to keep their personal details quiet. Anonymity keeps them safe from those who are more powerful than them. I looked for any quote at all by Elder Cook where he speaks against misuse of power. He's given a few glancing comments about unrighteous dominion but they were ancillary. If powerful people harming the weak ever made him uncomfortable enough to build a talk around it, I can find no sign of it. Elder Cook's most prominent concern for abuse of power seems to begin and end with people protecting themselves from it. Well, okay. Perhaps he lost his way. Perhaps he never had it. I might agree that neither of those things are absolutely true. But I suspect if I view him thru a lens of someone who safeguards power, I won't be surprised.

Wise. Dispite the unfortunate stories where people regret past remarks they said when they were younger. I'm certain anonymity is going to disappear before too long, AI will triangulate everyone. People are already getting arrested for things they say online in the UK. The thought police will have the ability to enforce their will.

Was Nehor celebrating or suggesting in any way Kirk’s shooting was good? If not, I find your assumption that his reasoning to go the extreme of murder just because he might agree with some things those celebrating believe as not particularly in good faith. I would automatically call it trolling if you weren’t a long time poster. Right, because that needs to be said by someone like Nehor or perhaps me or seeking or ttribe or Mustardseed. Our conversation regularly takes us to applauding torture or murder and just general all over oppression, so it’s necessary to clarify because you might be wrong if you gave us the benefit of the doubt….like I bet everyone is currently giving you. How would you react if someone assumed you could be supportive of such extreme measures as killing ideological opponents or as called for by some extreme Christian nationalists just because you agree with some positions they hold (or appear to) ? You have certainly condemned others for assuming/implying you were a racist/bigot by taking your comments to a more extreme positions iirc. Why do that here? And you would not have celebrated if Hitler or one of his leaders or even a squad of soldiers on their way to the front had been assassinated by a resistance member? I am now curious, do you disapprove of the assassinations of Osama bin Laden and Abu Musab al-Zarqawi?

From the Tribune: LDS apostle speaks out against online anonymity, calls it spiritually dangerous A Grok summary: I have been trying to improve my online communications, with results that at times are leaving something to be desired. I continue to work on it, though. What are your thoughts about the nexus between online civility and online anonymity? What are your thoughts about what has been called the "Online Disinhibition Effect"? From Wikipedia: "Anonymity, asynchronous communication, and empathy deficit contribute to online disinhibition." Do you agree or disagree? Are there other contributing factors? Do you think Elder Cook as a good point? Do you think adverse effects of anonymity are present on this board? Thanks, -Smac

I provided my source. It is "American Child Bride" written by Nicholas Syrett. I've quoted the book a few times. Yes, the average age was in the 20s. But marrying a 14 year old was not sick back then. If you'd like to read it, you can borrow it through archive.org - https://archive.org/details/americanchildbri0000syre/page/52/mode/2up

You cannot have a family without a Mother AND a Father.

I find this an odd question since Nehor has only advocated limited and very context dependent violence (punching) against one type of ideology that he sees (correctly imo***) as inherently using violence and murder as a political tool. I had asked Nehor whether "killing a fascist" would "exposes the weakness of the fascist and opens them to ridicule from their own side." You responded: Nope, make them a martyr (not saying I endorse any for of violence or even ridicule, just saying). Nehor responded: Sometimes that could make them a hero so usually not as good a thing. Nehor had also previously endorsed the killing of fascists and nazis during WWII, and I asked why shooting fascists "in this context" (that is, today) is wrong, and he said: "Because we aren’t at war with a fascist state." Nobody was at war with Charlie Kirk, but people are celebrating his murder anyway, under the same pretext being deployed here (that he was a "fascist"). So far nobody has said that killing ideological opponents is morally wrong. I haven't specifically inquired about that. So I'll do it here: Nehor has said "Do I endorse shooting the guy? No." It appears that this negative response should be viewed alongside his response above ("we aren't at war with a fascist state"). Are there any other constraints besides that? Is killing "fascists" outside the context of war between nation-states moral or justified? My recollection is that he was very much in favor of killing fascists during WWII, and he appears to be drawing a one-to-one correlation between the fascists of 1940s Italy and people like Charlie Kirk. I find it troubling that we are throwing around labels like this, as I think it is contributing to justifications for violence, up to and including killing. There is no criteria for "fascist" or "nazi" in most settings, as they are at this point generally epithets for ideological opponents. The celebratory sentiments about the murder of Charlie Kirk and others is troubling. I agree. Yes. By uniformed combatants operating under the rules of war. In the U.S. in 2026, "fascist" is just an epithet that anyone can assign to anyone. And once that label becomes a preemptive justification for violence, we are in trouble. I should have been more specific. Thanks, -Smac

Elders Quorum: Quality is the same as before, just shorter lessons. The presidency have also split lessons (ie. covered the same talk on multiple consecutive Sundays) when needed. Sunday School: Current teacher (called since the change) had taught various youth classes for a long time, and is in the habit of doing lessons aimed at dragging answers out of the class rather than letting discussion come naturally (which has never been a problem in our class). I expect that to improve over time.

You may want to check that. Marrying age for women at the time was 20-25 years old.

Or they thought the word sounded vaguely biblical and went with it and then didn’t think about what it literally meant.

I find this an odd question since Nehor has only advocated limited and very context dependent violence (punching) against one type of ideology that he sees (correctly imo***) as inherently using violence and murder as a political tool. I suspect he sees more than just fascists as ideological opponents, but he has only advocated punching fascists in general, not any ideological opponent, iirc and I don’t remember him advocating killing even if he can understand why some go there iirc. I certainly understand why people kill oppressors, especially those who are violent or even who threaten their own lives or the lives of loved ones even though I would never advocate except as the very, very, very last resort in the case of severe, violent oppression and even then sometimes I see a martyr’s death could be a better response in some cases if it can be publicized enough to mobilize public opinion against oppression. Killing fascists in a war they most likely started or at least triggered with violence…don’t you yourself see that as a moral response? If so, I don’t understand why you jumped to acting as if the conversation was advocating killing any ideological opponents or killing them without any moral restraint. ***I asked Google if there were fascist governments that haven’t murdered people and it kept trying to correct it to “have”. When I finally convinced it I actually meant “haven’t”, it couldn’t find any.

I think with better technology that will be able to produce plant based food of all types and textures that fulfill all nutritional needs in healthier ways, animal products for food, clothing, furniture will likely fade away…maybe some for the very rich and decadent. The cost of using animals will become considered to be too inefficient, impractical for most. Once we move long enough away from being carnivores, I can easily see that turning into a general cultural morality issue given where the typical reaction is disgust since we are already partway there.

My mom and I solved the problem over lunch. ditch Sunday school. But implement more scripture study into the second hour lesson. We don’t need a whole hour re reading a talk we already heard and can read again anytime