I have always felt that people have an image of God, and appearance of Charlton Heston with a grey beard and hair, along with the voice of Morgan Freeman. This with the expectation that God will intervene as in Biblical times. As I have grown older, I have felt God intervenes in a way suitable to the time. A bit like a sculptor working on a project. At the start, big chunks being cut off, and along the way chiseling less to get to the finished article. At a time when God made big incursions into the world, maybe in the present time, God still intervenes, but possibly in a less noticeable way.
For myself, when facing personal concerns and I have prayed to God for help. Assistance may come through the help and/or guidance of other people. Alternatively, the normal process of events may take a turn where I can overcome the difficulties that I face. So maybe God like the sculptor is gently chipped away, without any grand gesture. God, through the Holy Spirit maybe guiding us, and sometimes through other people. When people, through relationships, family, friends, workplace. Are facing difficulties, as problematic as it maybe. Need to understand the other person position, and work together through the issue.
Sometime, people, may walk away from their church, because of issues they feel strongly about. Unfortunately, walking away still leaves the issue there. I prefer to face whatever issues, and try to work on the issue to influence for the better.
The thing is, have faith in God. He's been around for a long time, and knows what he is doing. Just trust in him.