I share some of the same concerns. I have for quite awhile with most denominations. I began feeling this way once I started reading scripture for myself, instead of relying on whichever church I was attending to teach me their version. I don't have any issues with traditions, I enjoy some myself. I just think they should be treated as what they are, traditions. Not passed on as the word of God or teachings of Christ. I always find it concerning when a particular denomination is more focused on having you see things their way, rather than saving your soul.