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(KUTV) — A former Latter-day Saints bishop, now excommunicated, is back in Salt Lake City to spread his message to "protect every child" from sexual abuse, and to announce a march on the same weekend as General Conference this fall.

A bearded Sam Young wore a shirt and tie, along with shorts and hiking boots, as he gathered with others at a downtown club on Sunday. He had the bearing of a hiker, rather than an ecclesiastical minister.

It looks like there were about 23-24 people in the audience.  Plus, Sam Young was wearing, well, a flag as a cape:

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This seems a little . . . off.  (FWIW, the Trib's article on this same story does not include any references to or pictures of Mr. Young's regalia.)

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Just over a year ago, the Church released "new guidelines" allowing a parent to accompany a minor into those sessions, but Young said that change was not enough. He went on a hunger strike that lasted for weeks to protest the interviews.

Now, he has widened his work through protecteverychild.com to assure kids are safe inside religious institutions, and the march from the City and County Building to the State Capitol on Oct. 5 is part of that effort.

“We are going to be preparing for at least 5,000 people,” Young said. “We’re talking about going to the moon again. Well that’s a cool thing, but our children are even more important.”

I am curious as to how many people will turn out for this march.

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I apologize for publishing the OP in multiple posts.  I kept getting a "403" error unless I broke it up into smaller pieces.  Weird.

Thoughts?

-Smac

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1 minute ago, smac97 said:

I apologize for publishing the OP in multiple posts.  I kept getting a "403" error unless I broke it up into smaller pieces.  Weird.

Thoughts?

-Smac

Some word or phrase is triggering the 403. I start using synonyms for phrases or words I think might be triggering it and I can usually make it work in a few tries.

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3 minutes ago, The Nehor said:

Some word or phrase is triggering the 403. I start using synonyms for phrases or words I think might be triggering it and I can usually make it work in a few tries.

I didn't change the text, I just broke the post into groupings of paragraphs and quotes, and that allowed me to publish the whole.  Weird.

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13 minutes ago, smac97 said:

I didn't change the text, I just broke the post into groupings of paragraphs and quotes, and that allowed me to publish the whole.  Weird.

Could be a change in sequence. I had one post that would not work until I put an extra line break between two paragraphs. The filter works in mysterious ways.

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47 minutes ago, smac97 said:

Mr. Young's sole gripe against the Church is that it has its bishops conduct interviews with youth.  He wants those stopped completely (a cure that may be worse than the disease, since bishops are often instrumental is detecting and reporting child abuse, and there are, AFAICS, essentially no reported instances of bishops assaulting children in bishop interviews).  And yet here he is referencing "sexual predators" in "religious communities."  IOW, he seems to be drawing a one-to-one comparison between bishops and "sexual predators."  Again.

I think the concern is grooming and sexually explicit talk in interviews. Not just abuse. I think there's some validity there. I don't know what percentage of bishops are ham fisted or lacking in social nuance, but I'd not be surprised to find out it's as high as 5% or even higher. For those bishops how they talk about sex might be damaging to people even if such wasn't their aim. 

While like you I think the cost of getting rid of interviews is higher than the benefits, I also think better training and particularly role playing is important for bishops here. I also think Stake Presidents should be much more on the ball regarding inappropriate Bishops. 

You're correct that a Bishop hasn't assaulted anyone in an interview. But we do know about that Bishop a couple of years ago in Springville or Mapleton that drugged and assaulted young men. Likewise last year that Bishop in Lehi who wasn't just a predator but had apparently actually run a prostitution ring in St. George while a police officer. It's completely understandable when members hear news stories like that to lose a lot of the benefit of doubt with respect to Bishops.

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This generation is so full it itself. They and they alone can save the world by holding a protest - because the rest of us, poor, stupid humans, just cannot handle it without them to guide us. If  you are going to protest, I am already over you. No, you don't have a novel approach; you are not God's gift to humanity; and your message is not new or vital to the existence of the rest of the human race. 

This poor man bores me. 

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4 minutes ago, Storm Rider said:

This generation is so full it itself. They and they alone can save the world by holding a protest - because the rest of us, poor, stupid humans, just cannot handle it without them to guide us. If  you are going to protest, I am already over you. No, you don't have a novel approach; you are not God's gift to humanity; and your message is not new or vital to the existence of the rest of the human race. 

This poor man bores me. 

By this generation do you mean older Gen Xers or Boomers? Sam Young is not exactly a spring chicken and probably is one of the two.

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33 minutes ago, clarkgoble said:

I think the concern is grooming and sexually explicit talk in interviews. Not just abuse. I think there's some validity there. I don't know what percentage of bishops are ham fisted or lacking in social nuance, but I'd not be surprised to find out it's as high as 5% or even higher. For those bishops how they talk about sex might be damaging to people even if such wasn't their aim. 

While like you I think the cost of getting rid of interviews is higher than the benefits, I also think better training and particularly role playing is important for bishops here. I also think Stake Presidents should be much more on the ball regarding inappropriate Bishops. 

You're correct that a Bishop hasn't assaulted anyone in an interview. But we do know about that Bishop a couple of years ago in Springville or Mapleton that drugged and assaulted young men. Likewise last year that Bishop in Lehi who wasn't just a predator but had apparently actually run a prostitution ring in St. George while a police officer. It's completely understandable when members hear news stories like that to lose a lot of the benefit of doubt with respect to Bishops.

Grooming has a specific definition. In my opinion Sam and his followers do not apply that specific definition. 

From his blog:

"Taking minors behind closed doors, beyond the earshot and eyesight of everyone, IS predatory grooming behavior."

** which means every parent, teacher, police officer, Principal, etc who talks to a minor one-on-one, is engaging in "predatory grooming behavior", meaning they are doing so with the intent of sexual abuse

"Asking a minor sexual questions is totally predatory behavior. Almost every bishop is grooming our children for the sexual predators in our leadership ranks, in the neighborhood and anywhere else in society.  The bishops groom kids for those serving above and around them.  Bishops are grooming our youngsters for the predator who might replace him as the next bishop."

** He is saying that Bishops intend that a child be sexually abused.

psychologytoday "Broadly, sexual grooming refers to the behaviors that a child molester employs in preparation for committing sexual abuse against a child."

American Bar Association "Sexual grooming is a preparatory process in which a perpetrator gradually gains a person’s or organization’s trust with the intent to be sexually abusive."

wikipedia "Child grooming is befriending and establishing an emotional connection with a child, and sometimes the family, to lower the child's inhibitions with the objective of sexual abuse."

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27 minutes ago, smac97 said:

And yet he fails to address or acknowledge the changes that the Church has made in the guidelines for such interviews.

And his proposal, to ban all bishop interviews forever, is borne more of a hysteria than of a reasoned argument.

Is that what he is now proposing?  I admit I have not kept up with his opinions...

I thought he just objected to any sexual questions taking place with a child or youth in a one-on-one interview.  Is he even against interviews with a Bishop where another adult can be present? 

(Also, I have not seen anyone claim that the touching or physical or sexual abuse actually occurs during an interview.....have they?)

 

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1 hour ago, Storm Rider said:

This generation is so full it itself. They and they alone can save the world by holding a protest - because the rest of us, poor, stupid humans, just cannot handle it without them to guide us. If  you are going to protest, I am already over you. No, you don't have a novel approach; you are not God's gift to humanity; and your message is not new or vital to the existence of the rest of the human race. 

This poor man bores me. 

Protests have worked for many things, the majority for civil rights. 

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2 hours ago, smac97 said:

I apologize for publishing the OP in multiple posts.  I kept getting a "403" error unless I broke it up into smaller pieces.  Weird.

Thoughts?

-Smac

My thoughts are this, yes to the leaders being available if a youth would like to discuss something, or get something off their chest. But ixnay on worthiness interviews at all. Or don't call them that anyhow. They do mental damage to many. So by all means if someone at an older age wants the interview and for it to be one on one, great. But children, definitely not.

Also, you mentioned that these interviews could catch abuse happening, I don't think that is cut and dry, many can go to all sorts of people for that. And I don't believe a bishop is qualified or trained to deal with sexual abuse victims, nor would they get the law involved, when it maybe should be. They would just call the lawyers. Which is something that strikes me as odd. Why are we even in need of lawyers? Can the perpetrators just get handled without that?

Why is the church being sued all the time? Well because they don't get the law involved nor do they tell the victim to go that route. For the longest time the church treated it like a sin/repentence thing not a breaking the law thing and something that needs to be taken care of in jail/prison, if needs be.

I know many think that the highest child sexual abuse record Utah has is because they are reported more than other states, but I believe it is because for many, many years, the children didn't come first in the eyes of the church. The church wanted the abuser to get help, and not be put away.

 

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7 minutes ago, Tacenda said:

My thoughts are this, yes to the leaders being available if a youth would like to discuss something, or get something off their chest. But ixnay on worthiness interviews at all. Or don't call them that anyhow. They do mental damage to many. So by all means if someone at an older age wants the interview and for it to be one on one, great. But children, definitely not.

Also, you mentioned that these interviews could catch abuse happening, I don't think that is cut and dry, many can go to all sorts of people for that. And I don't believe a bishop is qualified or trained to deal with sexual abuse victims, nor would they get the law involved, when it maybe should be. They would just call the lawyers. Which is something that strikes me as odd. Why are we even in need of lawyers? Can the perpetrators just get handled without that?

Why is the church being sued all the time? Well because they don't get the law involved nor do they tell the victim to go that route. For the longest time the church treated it like a sin/repentence thing not a breaking the law thing and something that needs to be taken care of in jail/prison, if needs be.

I know many think that the highest child sexual abuse record Utah has is because they are reported more than other states, but I believe it is because for many, many years, the children didn't come first in the eyes of the church. The church wanted the abuser to get help, and not be put away.

 

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2 hours ago, Tacenda said:

Protests have worked for many things, the majority for civil rights. 

Tacenda, I agree that there are times when a protest is appropriate; however, we in this generation of people protest at the drop of a hat over everything. We protest if someone is going to talk; we protest if another doesn't talk; we protest over wildlife; plants; the right to kill infants; the right not to kill infants; the color we paint buildings; the design of buildings; the building of homes; the lack of homes; the construction of offices buildings; the lack of construction; roads; hospitals; teaching; you name it and we protest it. 

Then we have this yahoo prancing about in a cape and shorts with a baseball cap. Oh please, someone just slap him. 😉

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2 minutes ago, Storm Rider said:

Tacenda, I agree that there are times when a protest is appropriate; however, we in this generation of people protest at the drop of a hat over everything. We protest if someone is going to talk; we protest is another doesn't talk; we protest over wildlife; plants; the right to kill infants; the right not to kill infants; the color we paint buildings; the design of buildings; the building of homes; the lack of homes; the construction of offices buildings; the lack of construction; roads; hospitals; teaching; you name it and we protest it. 

I save time and just make one sign:

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39 minutes ago, Tacenda said:

My thoughts are this, yes to the leaders being available if a youth would like to discuss something, or get something off their chest. But ixnay on worthiness interviews at all.

I actually almost agree with you here.

I think that the mandatory (or whatever one wants to call the interviews for youth that are initiated by the leaders for all youth....yearly and 6 month interviews) should take place with another adult present (whoever the youth chooses to invite in....one of the youth leaders or a parent, etc.).  I believe this would also be a good protection for the Bishop or leader as well since they initiated the interview.  And...not bringing up anything of a sexual nature (especially questioning about masturbation for example).  Just general worthiness questions such as are in a temple recommend interview for an adult for these interviews.

But I do believe that the Bishop should still be available for one-on-one interviews initiated by anyone who wants to discuss something with him privately.

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1 minute ago, ALarson said:

I actually almost agree with you here.

I think that the mandatory (or whatever one wants to call the interviews for youth that are initiated by the leaders for all youth....yearly and 6 month interviews) should take place with another adult present (whoever the youth chooses to invite in....one of the youth leaders or a parent, etc.). 

This is already allowed under the Church's policies.

1 minute ago, ALarson said:

I believe this would also be a good protection for the Bishop or leader as well since they initiated the interview. 

Yes.

1 minute ago, ALarson said:

And...not bringing up anything of a sexual nature (especially questioning about masturbation for example). 

I think bishops can and should, with tact and restraint and decorum, address the Law of Chastity.  It's an important topic.

1 minute ago, ALarson said:

Just general worthiness questions such as are in a temple recommend interview for an adult for these interviews.

Sounds like we are more or less in agreement.

1 minute ago, ALarson said:

But I do believe that the Bishop should still be available for one-on-one interviews initiated by anyone who wants to discuss something with him privately.

Yep.

Thanks,

-Smac

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4 minutes ago, smac97 said:

This is already allowed under the Church's policies.

Yes, of course I know that.  But I believe they should all take place with another adult present (two deep) as standard procedure or policy.  You can disagree and I respect that....I'm just stating how I feel about those mandatory interviews.

6 minutes ago, smac97 said:

I think bishops can and should, with tact and restraint and decorum, address the Law of Chastity. 

If asked as is done in a worthiness interview for adults, I agree ("Do you live the law of chastity?").  But initiating a conversation about masturbation or any other sexual topic should be avoided and off limits, IMO.

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1 hour ago, provoman said:

Grooming has a specific definition. In my opinion Sam and his followers do not apply that specific definition. 

I'm not so much talking about this figure, who I know little about, than people's worries about interviews in general. For instance my son's math teacher just go arrested this weekend. What was his grooming technique? Talking about sex and then moving up to pornographic pictures. So sex talk very much can be a grooming technique particularly when explicit. Bishops who get explicit (and some do - although probably most aren't predatory) can be problematic for many reasons beyond predation.

1 hour ago, smac97 said:

And yet he fails to address or acknowledge the changes that the Church has made in the guidelines for such interviews.And his proposal, to ban all bishop interviews forever, is borne more of a hysteria than of a reasoned argument.

I tend to agree, although there are definitely many people who favor getting rid of interviews. Although it's also worth noting that a certain vein within liberal Mormon theology dislikes the idea of proactive questioning regarding worthiness and wants us to be more like Protestants. Again let me emphasize though that I don't really have strong opinions one way or an other on Sam Young.

1 hour ago, smac97 said:

Then the appropriate remedy would, I think, be for the Church to provide further guidelines and training about handling such matters.  And the Church has provided such further guidelines and training.  And Sam Young's response is . . . to ignore the Church's efforts.  To pretend no changes or efforts have been made.  And to continue to characterize all bishops as "sexual predators" and nascent child molesters.

Again ignoring the Sam Young (and SL Tribune) issues I think the Church could still do better with training. I'd like to see more online training particularly with actors demoing difficult scenarios.

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