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Kirby, while he and I have our differences, strikes me as the kind of guy who would make a great neighbor. 

The comments below the article are venomous, almost scary at times.

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I'm wondering why he didn't actually mention any of our faith's flaws.  He only mentioned that which others find to be stumbling blocks usually because they don't know the doctrine or have heard only yellow journalistic history.


Not his style.  IMHO.

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