Tony uk Posted December 3, 2024 Posted December 3, 2024 10 minutes ago, Dario_M said: Aaawh okay i get it. That must be though. 🫂 By the end of the block of night shifts. My brain, body and environment, feel as they are in different time zones to each other 😊. It is a job, and it pays the bills.
Dario_M Posted December 3, 2024 Author Posted December 3, 2024 2 minutes ago, Tony uk said: By the end of the block of night shifts. My brain, body and environment, feel as they are in different time zones to each other 😊. It is a job, and it pays the bills. I can not even amagine how tired you must be. I'm always going to bed at 22:00 a clock. No night activities for me, oh sweet Jesus.
Tacenda Posted December 18, 2024 Posted December 18, 2024 Dario, I happen to see this place. I wondered if you knew about it. The Corpus Museum and here's the heading I c/p'd The Corpus Museum in the Netherlands is the only museum in the world that offers the possibility of a journey through the human body. 2
Tony uk Posted December 18, 2024 Posted December 18, 2024 5 hours ago, Tacenda said: Dario, I happen to see this place. I wondered if you knew about it. The Corpus Museum and here's the heading I c/p'd The Corpus Museum in the Netherlands is the only museum in the world that offers the possibility of a journey through the human body. If they had one of these in England, I would definitely go visit. 1
Dario_M Posted December 19, 2024 Author Posted December 19, 2024 (edited) On 12/18/2024 at 1:54 AM, Tacenda said: Dario, I happen to see this place. I wondered if you knew about it. The Corpus Museum and here's the heading I c/p'd The Corpus Museum in the Netherlands is the only museum in the world that offers the possibility of a journey through the human body. Oh yes i know that museum. I've never been there though. But i have def heard from it. I don't even know where it is located. I'm gonna google it. Edit. It's in Eindhoven. Funny that city has a history for me. I've been there a lot in my younger years. Because i had family there. But infortunately i don't go there anymore. I've broken contact with them many years ago. Years bevore my parents even sold the house. Unfortunately right now..i live kinda far away from Eindhoven. It would take me 2 and a half hours by train. The city is also kinda big so it's busy there. And i try to stay away from busy places. Because i can't handle it anymore. Thank you for the recommendation anyway. 💙 Edited December 19, 2024 by Dario_M
Dario_M Posted January 16 Author Posted January 16 Again there's not much activity on the board. But what i also notice is that people don't make new topics. And without new topics (even i) people have not much to say.
Dario_M Posted January 22 Author Posted January 22 (edited) Hey unfortunately i can't make topics anymore. I just had a massive fight with my bf. It was so bad that i decided to book a hotel for next week for a whole week. To escape his angery behavoir. I'm so desperate. I don't know what to do anymore. I just don't know. I'm losing all hope. I think that i can't do this much more longer. My bf doesn't understand anything about me. Bullies me sometime. I'm so inhappy. He's still the only one i got. I have nobody. Not even my parents. If this guy would make an end on our relationship. It would be done with me. Then i will be ...lost. Edited January 22 by Dario_M
Tony uk Posted January 22 Posted January 22 2 hours ago, Dario_M said: Hey unfortunately i can't make topics anymore. I just had a massive fight with my bf. It was so bad that i decided to book a hotel for next week for a whole week. To escape his angery behavoir. I'm so desperate. I don't know what to do anymore. I just don't know. I'm losing all hope. I think that i can't do this much more longer. My bf doesn't understand anything about me. Bullies me sometime. I'm so inhappy. He's still the only one i got. I have nobody. Not even my parents. If this guy would make an end on our relationship. It would be done with me. Then i will be ...lost. Hi Dario. I don't know fully what is going on with you personally, and it's none of my business. Based on what you said in your post, I hope you can resolve whatever issues you are facing. I am facing a few issues of my own at the moment, with health and work place. There is an old saying, ' It never rains, but always pours'. I think it makes sense when facing a number of challenges at the same time. Hope you can overcome your issues. 1
Dario_M Posted January 22 Author Posted January 22 (edited) 2 hours ago, Potter said: I'm new to the board, could you clarify what you mean when you say you can't create topics anymore? This is your thread. That was before i got limited status. Now i can't make any topics again anymore. But yeah...i've choosen for the limited status myself. Edited January 22 by Dario_M
Dario_M Posted January 22 Author Posted January 22 (edited) 1 hour ago, Tony uk said: Hi Dario. I don't know fully what is going on with you personally, and it's none of my business. Based on what you said in your post, I hope you can resolve whatever issues you are facing. Me and my bf have made it up now. But....going to a hotel on monday. Because i need to be alone for a while. And when i am with my bf we argue way to much and it gives me stress. 1 hour ago, Tony uk said: I am facing a few issues of my own at the moment, with health and work place. There is an old saying, ' It never rains, but always pours'. I think it makes sense when facing a number of challenges at the same time. Aaawh poor you. I will pray for your sweet soul. 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏 i can imagine that your work must be though. Considder the night shifts you need to do. Poor you. 🫂 Edited January 22 by Dario_M
Calm Posted January 22 Posted January 22 1 hour ago, Dario_M said: Me and my bf have made it up now. But....going to a hotel on monday. Because i need to be alone for a while. And when i am with my bf we argue way to much and it gives me stress. Aaawh poor you. I will pray for your sweet soul. 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏 i can imagine that your work must be though. Considder the night shifts you need to do. Poor you. 🫂 How much longer do you need to wait for counseling? Have you tried calling hotlines for help when you are upset? I don’t know what services are offered in the Netherlands.
Dario_M Posted January 23 Author Posted January 23 (edited) 1 hour ago, Calm said: How much longer do you need to wait for counseling? Have you tried calling hotlines for help when you are upset? I don’t know what services are offered in the Netherlands. Counseling? I don't know how expesive that is. For next monday i'm going to a hotel for the whole week anyway. And i just need some space away from my bf. He seems to not understand what kind of pain i have because of all the things that have happend. But it's really strange. Today he was screaming loudly at me and was laughing at me about my pill use. He was just plain mean. But now it's in the middle of the night here and we both can't sleep but he is acting so sweet to me suddenly. 😖😓 his character changes quite a bit. Edited January 23 by Dario_M
Calm Posted January 23 Posted January 23 8 minutes ago, Dario_M said: Counseling? I don't know how expesive that is. For next monday i'm going to a hotel for the whole week anyway. And i just need some space away from my bf. He seems to not understand what kind of pain i have because of all the things that have happend. But it's really strange. Today he was screaming loudly at me and was laughing at me about my pill use. He was just plain mean. But now it's in the middle of the night here and we both can't sleep but he is acting so sweet to me suddenly. 😖😓 his character changes quite a bit. Sounds like he has some unresolved issues of his own. Possibly even physical issues (lots of things that happen in the body can cause significant mood changes, such as low blood sugar levels can cause anger, a hyperactive thyroid can cause irritability and anger, etc.
Chum Posted January 23 Posted January 23 38 minutes ago, Dario_M said: Counseling? I don't know how expesive that is. In the US folks like to say "Just Get Counseling!" like it was a thing everyone can get. And it might be true in some places. For everywhere else, those without healthcare are mostly on their own. Some places may have slots for a few in need. Providing those folks plan wisely and navigate the enrollment maze well ahead of their crisis. 1 hour ago, Dario_M said: Today he was screaming loudly at me and was laughing at me about my pill use. He was just plain mean. But now ... he is acting so sweet to me suddenly. This pattern of behavior is super familiar to me. Best case scenario, they eventually got a diagnosis of bipolar disorder. Worst case, they didn't. 1
Calm Posted January 23 Posted January 23 (edited) 43 minutes ago, Chum said: In the US folks like to say "Just Get Counseling!" like it was a thing everyone can get. I remember Dario saying he was on a waiting list to see a psychotherapist when I asked earlier if he had access to counseling. I was thinking he should be close to getting an appointment if he hadn’t already. But my memory may be off as sometimes imagined conversations (as in I will rehearse in my head what I plan on saying and imagine responses) get remembered as if they really happened. Edited January 23 by Calm 1
Chum Posted January 23 Posted January 23 2 hours ago, Dario_M said: Counseling? I don't know how expesive that is. I gave the US version above. Don't let my bad example discourage you. Netherlands may care about their citizens well-being. Look for local government health services.
Dario_M Posted January 23 Author Posted January 23 4 hours ago, Calm said: Sounds like he has some unresolved issues of his own. Possibly even physical issues (lots of things that happen in the body can cause significant mood changes, such as low blood sugar levels can cause anger, a hyperactive thyroid can cause irritability and anger, etc. Yeah i believe that also. He has some heart problems, and he is just to fatt. He has been recently fired because he couldn't do the job anymore. And i can remember from years ago that his job was really important for him. He loved his work and he loved his colleagues. But the type of work he did was just to much for him. And i've often warnt him that this job he had was getting bad for his health.
Dario_M Posted January 23 Author Posted January 23 (edited) 2 hours ago, Calm said: I remember Dario saying he was on a waiting list to see a psychotherapist when I asked earlier if he had access to counseling. I was thinking he should be close to getting an appointment if he hadn’t already. But my memory may be off as sometimes imagined conversations (as in I will rehearse in my head what I plan on saying and imagine responses) get remembered as if they really happened. Oh you mean that i need to go to a psychologist?? (Yeah i didn't understand the word counseling you see) But yeah i'm on a waiting list indeed. So...i just need to wait. Edited January 23 by Dario_M
Dario_M Posted January 23 Author Posted January 23 3 hours ago, Chum said: In the US folks like to say "Just Get Counseling!" like it was a thing everyone can get. And it might be true in some places. For everywhere else, those without healthcare are mostly on their own. Some places may have slots for a few in need. Providing those folks plan wisely and navigate the enrollment maze well ahead of their crisis. Yeah i'm on a waitinglist. I have health care insurance. So that's not a problem for me. 3 hours ago, Chum said: This pattern of behavior is super familiar to me. Best case scenario, they eventually got a diagnosis of bipolar disorder. Worst case, they didn't. Oh really? Okay then.
Dario_M Posted January 23 Author Posted January 23 2 hours ago, Chum said: I gave the US version above. Don't let my bad example discourage you. Netherlands may care about their citizens well-being. Look for local government health services. Yeah i know. I'm on a waitinglist. I was just confused about the word "caunseling" i thought it was something else.
Calm Posted January 23 Posted January 23 58 minutes ago, Dario_M said: Yeah i know. I'm on a waitinglist. I was just confused about the word "caunseling" i thought it was something else. No problem. You do very well with English generally.
Dario_M Posted January 23 Author Posted January 23 12 minutes ago, Calm said: No problem. You do very well with English generally. Thank you Calm. That's so kind of you to say. 🫂
Dario_M Posted January 24 Author Posted January 24 (edited) 8 hours ago, Chum said: I can't like Dario_M? That seems unChristlike. ?? You don't like me? Or do i read this wrong? Edited January 24 by Dario_M
Calm Posted January 24 Posted January 24 8 minutes ago, Dario_M said: ?? You don't like me? Or do i read this wrong? He can’t give you a rep point, also known as a “like”.
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