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They have had scandals before and survived them.  These people sleep well at night on piles and piles of Canadian Dollars.

Isn't that like sleeping on a bed of Monopoly money? :vader:
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As I said earlier.  Using per capita numbers in Salt Lake City I can easily prove Utah has a very high rate of citizens who fart in church.  (And SLC is 45% Mormon- who knows the percentage of active Mormon or Mormons who oppose gay marriage).

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Isn't that like sleeping on a bed of Monopoly money? :vader:

 

Given the state of the US Dollar I'd be a hypocrite for saying that.

Posted

Given the state of the US Dollar I'd be a hypocrite for saying that.

 

I lived through Bolivia's "hyperinflation" period, wherein inflation in one year was 24,000% (that's not a typo). The peso devalued from 1,500 to the dollar to 2,500,000 to the dollar in just over a year. So, by comparison, the US dollar is doing just fine.

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As I said earlier.  Using per capita numbers in Salt Lake City I can easily prove Utah has a very high rate of citizens who fart in church. 

 

I am only willing to accept the stats if your study also includes a measurement of "stink" and you are the primary nose measuring said "stink."

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I am only willing to accept the stats if your study also includes a measurement of "stink" and you are the primary nose measuring said "stink."

 

My first calling in the church was the new primary class.  After that I raised 7 children and changed my share of over 35,000 diapers.

 

I KNOW stink.  

 

But let's trust self report on this one.  

 

:rofl:

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My first calling in the church was the new primary class.  After that I raised 7 children and changed my share of over 35,000 diapers.

 

I KNOW stink.  

 

But let's trust self report on this one.  

 

:rofl:

 

But, your expertise in this area is without peer!  I, for one, defer to you in this area...wholeheartedly.

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I bring it up because I am tired of Mormons who blame gays for "destroying marriage".  I think we should be working on our own marriages rather than telling other loving couples that they shouldn't be allowed the privilege.  Does this Ashley Madison info tell us a whole lot?  No.  But it is one data point.

I actually think this is a non sequitur. You are trying to make a point but you are using something totally unrelated. Furthermore no one condones the actions of those that go on to AM.

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I tend to put these stats in the same category of those showing Utah as being the top state for women on antidepressants or for Utah being the #1 state for porn subscriptions. There always is more to it than what the stats show and they can't just be taken on face value. Are they of interest? I guess.

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Please elucidate...  why does this one number about an affair website subscription rate in Utah upset you?  You have given me the impression that you blame Utah citizens who support heterosexual monogamy with hypocrisy over this issue.  I'm not sure that is a safe conclusion given the paucity of data.  And instead of continuing to say "answered" could you actually answer one of my questions about your statement?

 

Utah has a majority LDS population (over 60%).  I think we should, if we're living our religion, rank much lower in the cited data.

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I tend to put these stats in the same category of those showing Utah as being the top state for women on antidepressants or for Utah being the #1 state for porn subscriptions. There always is more to it than what the stats show and they can't just be taken on face value. Are they of interest? I guess.

 

It is always a stretch to go from the general(state) to the specific(individual).

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I tend to put these stats in the same category of those showing Utah as being the top state for women on antidepressants or for Utah being the #1 state for porn subscriptions. There always is more to it than what the stats show and they can't just be taken on face value. Are they of interest? I guess.

My response to the antidepressant stat is "Good, it shows that many here are trying to take active steps to improve their mental health. What is wrong with the people in your state?"

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I tend to put these stats in the same category of those showing Utah as being the top state for women on antidepressants or for Utah being the #1 state for porn subscriptions. There always is more to it than what the stats show and they can't just be taken on face value. Are they of interest? I guess.

 

Those discussions have been on here too.

 

High numbers of antidepressants are still lower than the Western States in general, and can be explained somewhat by the lower rate of self-medication with alcohol and other recreational drugs.  I would also be willing to bet that high expectations of perfection among LDS women contributes to reported depression rates.  

 

Pornography subscriptions may be similar to the Ashley Madison numbers where people are engaging in behaviors anonymously rather than in a community where they are publicly opposed.

 

I'm not saying that the Saints don't have issues with these things, and topics of General Conference talks show that we do... but we should be careful drawing conclusions about human behavior based on second tier statistics.

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Utah has a majority LDS population (over 60%).  I think we should, if we're living our religion, rank much lower in the cited data.

 

The data was from Salt Lake City (45%) and not the state in general.  See BD post.

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My response to the antidepressant stat is "Good, it shows that many here are trying to take active steps to improve their mental health. What is wrong with the people in your state?"

 

Indeed. I would likely be dead without antidepressant medications and psychotherapy.

Posted

It is always a stretch to go from the general(state) to the specific(individual).

 

Even trying to go from state to church is problematic.

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I don't have much to say about the state rankings, but I have found two silver linings to the recent Ashley Madison affair (yes, pun intended). First, data protection is critical for such a business model. This breach will prove very detrimental to all such businesses. Second - and probably equally detrimental to the business - the data shows that the vast majority (90%+) of users are male. I'm not saying that gender matters in the abstract (affairs are bad regardless of who does it), but just as with dating sites, the affair sites need to keep some balance in the genders to be effective. It looks likes AM struggles with that. I wonder how many of the male users knew that they were competing in such a weighted game.

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Schadenfreude aside, I wonder what the factors are that determine whether someone is going to sign up and pay for that service? Obviously, marital dissatisfaction is the likely reason people sign up for such things, but then, as the Alabama example shows, it's likely disposable income that determines whether one pays for it. So, marital dissatisfaction is not far from average among Utahns, but disposable income may be higher, at least among those who would likely sign up for Ashley Madison.

 

Those other factors don't matter.  Mormons are hypocrites.  All of 'em.  Based on what a tiny percentage of Utahns purportedly did.  

 

That's Rockpond's point.  Don't clutter the matter up with other "factors."

 

Thanks,

 

-Smac

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Those other factors don't matter.  Mormons are hypocrites.  All of 'em.  Based on what a tiny percentage of Utahns purportedly did.  

 

That's Rockpond's point.  Don't clutter the matter up with other "factors."

 

Thanks,

 

-Smac

 

Well, seems like an exaggeration of his point.

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What?  That it went to hell when all the Califoricators moved in.  Or perhaps that the LDS Church doesn't control all of its citizens like robots?

 

Just what conclusions can you draw from the number of pay for adultry website members of any given state?

Rockpond's conclusion is that LDS Utahns are hypocrites.

Thanks,

-Smac

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I've drawn one conclusion.  The one that I stated in the OP that is factually supported with the data.  The rest is discussion.

So accusing your fellow Saints of "hypocrisy" was not a "conclusion?"

Right. Just like your OP does not reek of schadenfreude.

But hey! It's all good! This is all just "discussion."

Thanks,

-Smac

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The data was from Salt Lake City (45%) and not the state in general.  See BD post.

 

Please link to the BD post (or give a number).  The data cited in the OP is from the state.

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So accusing your fellow Saints of "hypocrisy" was not a "conclusion?"

Right. Just like your OP does not reek of schadenfreude.

Thanks,

-Smac

 

I didn't accuse my fellow saints of hypocrisy.

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