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That is wonderful, and I am very happy for you! I can't explain such things either. Maybe that particular "isometric exercise" stage was over?

^^This^^ has been true for me. For better or for worse, I tend to see what I'm looking for... one implication being that, to a certain extent, I am my own jailer; but on the other hand, the key is in my own pocket. If I give my intellect (limited as it may be) the task of finding all the injustices a decent God would never have allowed and/or could have prevented, my intellect will deliver in abundance. I have not found that to be the path of greatest light for me. But it may well be for someone else - who am I to judge? Perhaps the brightest path for some is to make sure that God (or at least what we've been led to believe about God) gets called out for not living up to expectations. If that is what works for you, carry on! Personally, I think Viktor Frankl figured this stuff out. Here are a few relevant quotes: "Forces beyond your control can take away everything you possess except one thing, your freedom to choose how you will respond to the situation." "Between stimulus and response there is a space. In that space is our power to choose our response. In our response lies our growth and our freedom." "Our greatest freedom is the freedom to choose our attitude." Here's another take on the same basic concept, that of claiming and acting upon our freedom to choose our response and our attitude in the face of whatever circumstances present, this time not from a concentration-camp survivor but from a zombie: "Choose love in spite of all you see in the world. Choose love regardless of what you're going through. It does not matter how much you're suffering, the choice for love is still there. It never goes away despite any circumstance, despite any temperature in the world, despite any war, despite any famine, despite how wealthy you are, despite how happy you are, how sad you are, how depressed you are, the choice to remember to choose love never ever goes away. Regardless of whether the world is perfect or is going through the absolute fires of who knows what, the choice is still there. Be strong enough to make that choice. That's what it's about, to make [that choice] regardless." - near-death experiencer Jonathan Ashford That is what I aspire to, and I have a very long ways to go. Edited to add: This morning my YouTube feed fed me this short video, I have no idea who this guy is, but his message is to deliberately choose one's focus rather than trying to battle one's mind over every single thought. It's an imo very practical application of what @MustardSeed said, namely that we do find what we seek. Here it is, cued up to his core message, which he gets across in less than a minute and a half: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dp9lIUHWyFc&t=263s

Agreed! So, here's the thing: Can you expand your paradigm beyond what the scriptures and the Sunday School manual explicitly give you permission to believe and embrace? (This is a rhetorical question; I'm pretty sure I've seen you do so.) Some version of the vending machine approach arguably has a place in a paradigm where outcomes not only matter, but are pretty much the only thing that really matters. Which kingdom are you and those you love going to wind up in? That would be an outcome which matters. The vending machine approach is, at least theoretically, about being able to control outcomes, including that one. And I would have a really hard time arguing from the LDS canon that we don't need to worry about outcomes. Such is my opinion, and imo such is the unarticulated truth behind the oft-repeated injunction to “fear not”, but there are far more scriptures giving reasons to be fearful than giving reasons not to be. Personally, I think this sort of thing is by design. I think there comes an intentional point where circumstances call upon a person to apply what they've learned about how to recognize truth. Sort of like, “you've passed the lecture part of the course, now here's the lab where you put it into practice.” And of course I could be wrong. Thanks! Me too. Sometimes I can go straight "there" just by having the intention, but most of the time I have to consciously and deliberately choose thoughts which “tune me in” to that particular “radio station”.

Then there are people who have done A in full faith that the result would be B and it didn't work out that way. For years I structured my life around that concept as advocated and expounded upon by the book "Drawing on the Powers of Heaven" by Grant Von Harrison. It didn't "work". Yes at the time it felt wonderful to "know" that the outcome I desired was going to happen, but then it didn't. So I now think it's a mistake to be focused on outcomes. I don't think we get to control outcomes, and that is probably a very good thing. Imo rituals and sacraments and ordinances and priesthoods are tools, and they can be very powerful tools if one has faith in them. They can even facilitate a person entering into the state of being filled with the pure love of Christ. They give permission where we might otherwise think we don't have permission. But they are not, in and of themselves, the pure love of Christ. They are not, in and of themselves, the mighty change of heart. They are not, in and of themselves, the presence of the Divine. Imo nothing external is needed (except perhaps correct teachings), but that doesn't mean no ritual or sacrament or ordinance or priesthood can be a facilitator. For instance I don't think a special occasion is needed to renew promises one has made to God, but if it helps, wonderful!

I'm not familiar with that channel, but if that's his opinion then I share it. Multiple researchers have noted that the beliefs of the LDS Church seem to be more compatible with the reports given by near-death experiencers than the beliefs of other religions, though of course differences can be found. My recollection is that Raymond Moody mentions this in his first book, or was it Melvin Morse? It's been a while and my memory is a bit foggy. In my opinion authentic near-death experience accounts are part of that which "God does now reveal". Imo they are, among other things, an opportunity to recognize truth when it shows up without someone in a position of ecclesiastical authority having put a stamp of approval on it. Imo they are an opportunity to see if we can apply Alma Chapter 32 to teachings that may be new to us. They may even be "new wine" that our old bottles, or old paradigms, cannot contain, causing us to grow. One of the ideas people who've had NDEs sometimes come back with is imo quite similar to the responsibility for one's choices taught in the LDS Church and in Section 76 in particular. It goes something like this: We don't get to bring our litany of excuses with us to the other side. Over there, we see with a clarity that our excuses cannot survive. So I think the "subduing" you mention is a free-will choice, there being no need whatsoever for coercion. Quoting an NDEer on the subject: "In my life review, there was one thing that was unmistakable and it may surprise you. There were no excuses. Not one. Not for anything. "But it wasn't “judgement” that I felt during the life review. It was something else. It was unconditional love, but it was also truth. And the truth is, simply, that during the existence that had led to that review, all of the excuses created and used in that life were meaningless. They never mattered. "Not a single reason I had ever rationalized for how I treated someone, any excuse for how I may have withheld love, the intellect’s logic for how and why I deservedly reacted to something, judged someone, none of it was there. Zero." Link: https://www.jonathanashford.com/post/the-excuse

I think religion has it wrong. Based on NDE accounts as well as the Book of Mormon account of Alma the Younger, I think the purpose of a hellish experience is simply to change a soul's trajectory. Here's one such experience; compare with Alma Chapter 36 if the topic interests you (and skip ahead to 22:57 if you're open to a non-religious take on "what we're here for"): I Went to Hell. It Was the Best Thing That Ever Happened (NDE) - YouTube

I dunno... put yourself in the robots' shoes. It's got to be stressful for them too.

Agreed. If all things “give us [valuable] experience, and work together for our good”, then we're never being screwed over. Imo this is an idea for which there are many, many witnesses, some within the canon of the LDS Church, but most from outside the LDS Church. Ime near-death experiencers offer depths of insight in this area which are not articulated in our few applicable verses of scripture. Hence my posting of links to relevant YouTube videos, in case it's a topic of interest to anyone. Agreed. When permitted to do so, the intellect is very adept at coming up with self-serving justifications for unloving attitudes and behaviors. Imo this is a mistake; imo the intellect should be the servant of the soul, and not the master. Instead of letting the ego and/or intellect steer the bus, what if we choose to show up as love incarnate to the best of our ability in the moment, regardless of how we showed up in the preceding moment?

I've read most of those. My understanding is that the at-the-time-revolutionary LDS concept of a pre-existence wherein choices were made, possibly including "plans", predates Raymond Moody's book by maybe 145 years or so. On the other hand my recollection is that the musical "My Turn On Earth" rather clearly depicts people making plans in the pre-existence, and it came out a two years after Raymond Moody's book. Were such ideas present in LDS culture before then? I don't know. But I don't think pre-birth planning was mentioned in Moody's book. AI doesn't think so either. I also asked AI when the first near-death experience accounts describing the making of pre-birth plans were published and it said 1992, but I do not trust AI to have made a thorough search. So if the one is informing the other it is not clear to me who started it, but I think the idea showed up in LDS culture first. What do you think? I did imply independence, and have no idea how I could ever present evidence of such. It would be like trying to prove a negative: Theoretically possible but not practical. So I now formally withdraw the implication of independence and will edit my post accordingly. <- EDIT: The time window for editing the post I was referring to has passed, so I hope this retraction is sufficient. Imo the bigger question is, are we being screwed over, or not? It is quite possible that our confirmation biases will present us with evidence supporting whichever belief we already have.

Apologies for being dense... are you saying that NDE accounts likely influenced/instigated LDS folklore, and/or vice-versa, or something else? Well my brain state seems to be one of density... it sounds to me like you're saying, in effect, that extraordinary claims (such as NDEs and/or LDS folklore on pre-birth planning) require extraordinary proof... am I misunderstanding you?

This is a topic on which quite a few near-death experiencers have weighed in. Their reports are pretty consistent. I come away with the impression that we are not victims; rather, we ourselves are intense experiencers of mortality and the unique opportunities for growth it offers us. I also come away with the impression that we simply do not have enough information to reliably sit in judgment. Here are two compilation videos wherein NDEers (and a few others) talk about planning our lives. While not everything on the videos aligns with current LDS thought, imo there are too many parallels with LDS doctrine and/or folklore for it to be mere coincidence. Each video is cued up to a clip that stood out to me, but imo all of the clips offer valuable insights. I think we are now living in one of the most amazing times in all of human history, having literally at our fingertips hundreds of first-hand accounts from otherwise ordinary people who have been on the other side and returned to report for the benefit of the rest of us:

Prayers for you Pyreaux. I think you can still talk to him.

I think you are being inspired. And it sounds to me like at-the-time seemingly disconnected threads in your life are now weaving together. I think there's a story out there that wants to be told by YOU.

Great reply @quietcanon, and I appreciate your taking my questions seriously. You have addressed all of my concerns. Very best to you.

I've been out of the loop for a while so your posts are the first time I've heard of anything like this. Imo it's prudent, and of course unfortunate that present circumstances make it prudent. Thirty-something years ago a man began calling our ward repeatedly threatening to show up and kill Mormons. Nobody else took his threats seriously, which was probably logical because nothing like what he was threatening had ever happened. I appointed myself "unofficial greeter", hanging around outside before and after meetings, and keeping an eye on what was happening outside and/or at the entrances as best I could during meetings both on Sundays and during the week. I was in the bishopric so my presence wasn't abnormal, and people just thought I was this cheerful little guy who liked to greet everyone. Nobody ever knew I was carrying, illegally because there was no other option in that jurisdiction at that time. Glad to hear there is now an actual plan in place, at least in some locations, and that actual trained personnel are involved.