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Because I believe he has more fight, this is so sudden. The siblings are planning pilgrimages. They need time. Not have him go while it's just me here. I have my own affairs to wrap up soon this year before he goes anywhere. I seek a new stable plateau, which is entirely possible with a little luck and good fortune. A little hard to explain, but like the 100 questions I wanted to ask my mom before she passed. God gave me that and a year longer than doctors said. Selfish? Maybe, but I think they'd still have wanted that.

Prayers for Ray, dad of Pyreaux. And prayers for Pyreaux, son of Ray. And when the times comes, consolation for all loved ones of Ray.

Is there a reason why you want it delayed or are you just not ready yet to let go (a valid reason and I am not telling you praying for this is wrong, but as someone who has an excellent chance of facing dementia and having seen my mother and grandmother experience it, my belief for me and my family is sooner is better).

It was a Tuesday morning and I was with a co-worker in a car travelling from Phoenix to a client's office in California (near the Arizona / California border). I don't recall if we first heard the news on the car radio or if someone called us on a cell phone, but it was fortunate that we were travelling by car and not by plane that day. It was hard to work with the client that day because everyone was distracted by the news, and it was eerie to see no air traffic in the sky on the drive back home.

Will do.

My dad Ray has dementia and had an asphyxiation incident (the state or process of being deprived of oxygen), as well as recent bowel troubles. I'm hoping he doesn't pass tonight, or tomorrow or this weekend. I believe in the prayers of many, it has worked all my life. Priesthood blessings, not so much. Prayer circles, many times. So, I have plenty of faith in it. Thanks, in advance.

September 11, 2001, my sister barges in my room to exclaim "A plane just hit the world trade center!", but its nearly the tone where she's known to keep me from sleeping in by falsely exclaiming in a non-serious tone, "Wake up, the house is on fire!". So, all I thought was, "That's a random thing to say". I go down stairs, the news people are still assuming it was some accident, so they were filming it live, so we saw the second plane hit. And that is when the news people 180° and were fairly certain it wasn't an accident. It's about time I started watching news, then realizing CNN was only 2 hours of news on loop... It made it really easy to remember my sister's birthday

I wasn’t even a twinkle in my grandfather’s eye, I am guessing. 😛

Where was I? Well, you might guess it. I was in the Sarasota, FL LDS Family History Center on S. Beneva, doing research on some long-forgotten aspect of LDS history. I was sitting, working on the computers, when the ladies turned on the televisions in the center. You may not remember that on the same morning, President Bush was also in Sarasota, reading to the children at Emma Booker Elementary. My wife was teaching her gifted kids at a different school in town. I remember well how they shut down almost all of northern Sarasota to get the president safely to his plane at the airport. It was a chilling morning; I shared with new LDS friends, putting aside our mutual interest in LDS history and focusing on the history that was unfolding in front of us. The impact on Sarasota was significant. It was one of a thousand mornings I have probably spent in LDS history centers, but it most likely was the most memorable one for me. best, Navidad.

I put up a short post but thought I could share a little more about Utah in particular. Here is a breakdown of water inputs and outputs. While that is a lot of water to donate it a minor hedge. The biggest loss of water is just the lake evaporating and there is not that much that can be done about it. I heard there were ideas to try to shade portions of the lake with solar panels or something similar but it is just not viable. Putting metal things and human construction in general near really briny water destroys the thing pretty quickly. Short of arresting climate change not much can be done. The other big drain is agriculture and the biggest water consumer is alfalfa. We should probably grow a LOT less of that. It needs a lot of water and is primarily used for livestock and not human consumption. Alfalfa growth to human calories consumed it is very inefficient. All the consumer level water conservation of replacing lawns and the like won’t move the needle. The biggest move that can be made is cutting back on the alfalfa growing which would of course mean a bunch of alfalfa millionaires (probably including the Church) would fight tooth and nail against it. Also the statement saying the only thing we can do is hope for more rain is defeatist and silly. As the Great Lake dries up there will be less rain. Hoping for a miracle or a short term rainfall of extra rain isn’t sustainable. I also really don’t know how you write a piece like that without mentioning climate change unless you deliberately are trying not to mention it.

It will be interesting what they do with odos (way). Christ says He is the road, the path. In the New Testament, its most common meaning is a road or path. Now that is a means to a destination, so it is easy to understand it metaphorically, as are both other words. Just for me, their discussion was a bit too literal an interpretation of aletheia. It is like looking for a door on a heart. Christ says, "Behold, I stand at the door and knock. It obviously necessitates a metaphorical interpretation, as do the terms in John 14:6. Best, Navidad . . . . oh and no, I am not literally Christmas!

The whole Southwest is in trouble. Lake Powell is approaching critical levels and it is likely to come down to either keeping Lake Mead or Lake Powell viable and it will almost certainly be Lake Mead that survives for a while. We need to cut water use in all of the southwestern states but everyone largely accepts the need to do that as long as it has no impact on them specifically. It is political suicide to try to make the harsh cuts needed to arrest the problem so the can keeps getting kicked down the road.

They did another podcast on how Jesus is the Way and then a third on how Jesus is the Light. I need to go and listen to those as well to see how they attempt to take a more literal look at those parts of that famous verse.

Perhaps I have assumed too much. I have been working on avoiding such accusations. I have apparently failed. I think the endless accusations of "Bigot!" from folks like you and SU are not so much offensive (they've long since lost whatever rhetorical potency they may have had) as they are - to me - indicative of you following some sort of informal advocacy playbook (present men in women's spaces as something naturally correct, refuse to identify any limiting principles, refuse to address adverse consequences for women and girls, refuse to address - or even outright deny - the foreseeable legal and social consequences of the proposal (including the eradication of sex-segregated spaces), etc.). Hence the inference that your comments in this thread have intentionally been aligned with what I see as motte-and-bailey tactics which I have been observing for years. I think "subversive" intent is perhaps the more accurate term. I am willing to grant that advocates of this approach sincerely think of themselves as being on the side of the angels. As George R.R. Martin has observed: “Nobody is a villain in their own story. We're all the heroes of our own stories.” Having observed legal and social developments along these lines for many years (and presupposing that others, such as yourself, have done likewise), I have concluded that the motte-and-bailey strategy is precisely what is going on in some circles of of trans advocacy groups and individuals. The strategy and tactics and terminology, together with the obfuscations and evasions and failure/refusal to identify any limiting principles and near-total disregard for the interests of women and girls (for whom these spaces have always been intended), have materially contributed to this conclusion. I admit that it's my personal view, but it seems warranted, both because of some public statements from trans advocates and because the near total failure/refusal to address the foreseeable consequences of this proposal (which is generally presented as a demand, not a request) more or less compels such an inference. As to public statements, see this article by GLAAD (under the header "Legislation") : Fact Sheet: Misleading Narratives About Transgender People and Restrooms, Locker Rooms, and Other Single-Sex Spaces This fact sheet on “restrooms, locker rooms, and other single-sex spaces” puts toilets in the same paragraph as sports restrictions, identity documents, and prison placement. It quotes the ACLU: transgender people should be allowed to “use facilities and participate in activities that match who they are,” and that this is “legally required by statutory and constitutional bans on sex discrimination.” That is a central principle covering facilities and activities. The article does not even bother to articulate a justification for males going into these spaces, and instead treats such entry as axiomatic, as a foregone conclusion, and any opposition to such entry as outrageous and beyond the pale. No treatment at all of the rights of women and girls to sex-segregated spaces. The ACLU’s long-published know-your-rights materials had already treated school restrooms, locker rooms, and sports eligibility as the same Title IX/gender-identity package, and said gender-neutral toilets are not an adequate substitute for using the facility that matches identity. To some extent, my conclusion about the motte-and-bailey tactic may be outdated. The Obama Administration's 2016 "Dear Colleague" letter shows that this strategy has been in place for at least the last ten years (thus making it less secretive than it is, but also demonstrating how profoundly subversive it is). It is the cleanest official statement of the theory: a student’s “gender identity” is the student’s “sex” for school facilities. Once that reading is accepted, locker rooms follow bathrooms; sports follow locker rooms unless a separate carve-out is written. That letter shows that the the interlinking of these topics - bathrooms, locker rooms, sports, prisons - was policy, and was no longer a hidden strategy. From the above link: The entire article is worth a read, particularly the section titled "The Quiet Revolution." After tracing how “gender identity” got into medicine, law, administration, statistics, and schools, the author names what those changes added up to. In a short span, institutions installed a new “principle of vision and division” of social life. Gender identity began to compete with, redefine, or displace sex. Because sex is among the most basic organizing categories there are, that is a large change. It happened with almost no public fight and little public notice until about 2015. That combination — structural change plus low visibility — is why he calls it a quiet revolution The strategy was intentionally quiet and subversive from the get. The author analogizes it to John Skrentny’s “minority rights revolution”: rights expanded less through mass protest than through insiders — agencies, courts, professional bodies, HR offices — reinterpreting old statutes and stacking small rules. Change was incremental, cross-referencing, and often shielded from voters. “Institutional leapfrogging” and a “politics of alignment” let each domain treat the last domain’s policy as settled fact. Fortune 500 nondiscrimination clauses, medical guidelines, data categories, and school policies cited one another. The 2016 Title IX Dear Colleague letter, telling schools that "identity" is "sex" for the purposes of access to women's facilities, became the public capstone of that private process, not its start. While the category was treated as a private, self-regarding fact, almost no one objected. Once it became actionable — something a child or adult could use to demand medical transition or entry to sex-separated spaces and sports — other people’s interests came into view: women’s privacy and safety, athletes’ fairness, parents’ concern about irreversible treatment. That is when the quiet phase ended and the loud one began. The revolution, then, was not a conspiracy so much as a category that outgrew the niches in which it had been planted. The above article (published in 2025) is, I admit, not fully congruent with my surmise. The author's articulation about the mechanism is different from mine: first, the category was institutionalized without a public mandate; second, the controversy arrived late, when the category started reallocating other people’s spaces, sports, and children’s medical care. However, my conclusion is, I think, also plausible. The pre-2015 path was quieter than a civil-rights march: guidance letters, settlement agreements, Fortune 500 alignment, medical SOC updates. This is all documented. After the "Dear Colleague" letter, state bills, Gloucester, sports cases, and European medical reversals, the public cost of the explicit claim rose. Some institutions responded by softening slogans (“inclusion,” “best practice,” “case by case”) while keeping identity-as-sex in handbooks. This progression looks like tactical quiet after exposure (IOW, motte-and-bailey). The article's author would more likely call it the old embedding machine still running in places the election does not reach. The movement, as a whole, saw the national and local backlash, decided a return to the quietly subversive motte-and-bailey approach was a better national strategy. As to the foreseeability aspect of all this, it has been - for me - one of the more potent indicators of subversive intent. The social and legal ramifications of the overall proposal, particularly the cross-pollenization (policy on bathrooms affects policy on locker rooms, sports, etc. and vice versa) and the eradication of sex-segregated spaces and the problematic impositions on the rights of women and girls, have been obvious for years, and yet the proposal's advocates pretty much always ignore them. Refuse to acknowledge them in any way. Act as if they don't exist. Act as if the proposal is axiomatically correct and justified. Accuse anyone who raises concerns about these consequences of bigotry. And so on. Sound pretty familiar. Sounds like what has been going on in this thread. Right down to the various and repeated accusations of "bigotry" ("I can’t help but wonder whether the real problem is them and involves something that rhymes with spigotry"). Present a "proposal" that is facially controversial and subversive ("Women's bathrooms should be open to men who 'identify' as women"), and act as if it is not, and that it is instead the moral and right thing to do. Ipso facto, anyone who disagrees with it is a bigot. Refuse to identify any limiting principles. Both because broadly-accepted tenets of trans ideology categorically reject any such limitations, and because any such limitations will almost immediately expose the real-world adverse ramifications of what is being presented as innocuous and harmless to everyone (except "bigots" - that is, anyone who questions or disagrees with the proposal). Refuse to address the foreseeable consequences. The eradication of sex-segregated spaces. The massive impositions on women and girls, the very people for whom such spaces were created. The avalanche of lawsuits and necessary upheavals to and profound reordering of workplaces, public spaces, schools, physical facilities, religious organizations and properties, and so on. These things just don't exist. They don't matter. They need not be addressed. And anyone who raises them as a worthwhile point of debate is a bigot. Endless "We must get on the right side of history" and "Hey, what we're proposing is totally unobjectionable, obviously correct, just a manifestation of 'ordinary grace, and who could not want that?'"-style posturing that presupposes the legitimacy and value of the very issues being debated. And, of course, anyone who does not toe that line or disagrees with it is a bigot. FWIW, I think you and yours should consider setting aside the "Bigot!" schtick. It's not a show of strength or moral superiority and virtue. Instead, it comes across as desperate and contrived and ad hoc, particularly when its rolled out during substantive discussions such as what we have been attempting here. It comes across as "Well, we aren't winning on substance and reasoning, so let's pull the 'Bigot!' card and see if we can distract from or shut down the conversation, and/or silence the people disagreeing with us." On this point I am reminded of Out of the Half-Light, which was episode 11 of season 1 of Law & Order. From IMDB: See also here: Eaton protests that his actions were not about his own political agenda but about bringing the fact of racist police officers and the injustices of the criminal justice system regarding African Americans to national public prominence. The confrontation ends with this exchange: Here's the clip on YouTube: This is more or less how I view trans advocates who throw what they must know will be molotov cocktails into society ("Hey, let's give men the legal right to enter into women's bathrooms, locker rooms, sports, prisons, etc."), act as if the proposal is innocuous, refuse to articulate any limiting principles, ignore the foreseeable adverse effects and profound societal ramifications and impositions, and distract from or shut down any contrary voices by labeling them as "bigots." Not only is this stuff corrosive to the fabric of society and public discourse, it is counterproductive. You and yours should, by now, be at "the hearts and minds stage" now. I have some further thoughts on why we don't see much of that (pronouncements about one's own position as exhibiting "ordinary grace" come across as rather hollow when, in the end, that same position is defended by endless "Bigot!" ad hominems), but that can be a discussion for another day. As a non-activist, and as an "on the outside looking in"-type observer of the trans advocacy movement, and having observed this stuff or some years now, here is what I think: The movement is built on a sense of profoundly unearned moral certainty, on the absolute conviction that its advocates are completely right, despite having done none of the intellectual or ethical heavy lifting required to actually understand the issue. I say this because the idea of putting men into women's spaces is radical and subversive, but they treat it as normative and innocuous. As if those objecting to or even expressing concerns about it are obviously and axiomatically out of bounds. I say this because these advocates will not or cannot answer entirely legitimate questions about proposals such as this. I say this because there are no limiting principles, and because advocates will not acknowledge that there are no limiting principles. Motte-and-bailey all over the place. I say this because the movement's go-to response before, during and after any discussion with someone who disagrees with them is "Bigot!" Not just that. A smart guy who nevertheless refuses to articulate any limiting principles, who insists that “It isn’t happening, so we don’t need a rule,” but then refuses to articulate what the "rule" is or should be (that is, who is and is not excluded from women's spaces under your proposal). A smart guy who refuses to acknowledge that his proposal results in de facto and/or de jure eradication of sex-segregated spaces. A smart guy who nevertheless declares obvious cross-application of his "proposal" to women's locker rooms, sports and prisons does not exist, and that these are entirely "separate issues." A smart guy who acts as if his radical proposal is innocuous, and who refuses to address - or even acknowledge the existence of - foreseeable and profound and adverse effects on the rights of women and girls, for whom sex-segregated spaces were created, and also on workplaces, public spaces, schools, physical facilities, religious organizations and properties, and so on. A smart guy who regularly utilizes ad hominem slurs to distract from or delegitimize or silence viewpoints which differ from his (e.g., "I can’t help but wonder whether the real problem is them and involves something that rhymes with spigotry"). A smart guy who refuses to acknowledge that there is considerably more at stake, relative to the interests of women and girls, than just "safety" (either that or explain why there is nothing else at stake). It's your smarts and your actions/inactions in this thread that have created the basis for my assessment. No, your comments in this thread are evidence of what I see as a calculated motte-and-bailey strategy. I may be wrong. I had assumed your proposal was a studied and carefully formulated thing, rather than an off-the-cuff, throw-it-at-the-wall-and-see-if-it-sticks idea. The questions I have been presenting for weeks now are not obscure nitpicks. They are what any lawyer or judge or legislator or what-have-you would ask about the potential consequences of enacting your proposal. I have been asking you to address these real-world ramifications, and you aren't obliging. It's dodge after dodge, peppered with "Bigot!" I had chalked that up to calculated strategy, but perhaps you simply have not given the matter as much thought as it deserves. Again, we all know you're a smart guy, so I don't know how else to account for the various and extensive and substantial deficiencies in your defense of your own proposal. Simple: Answer my questions. Stop evading and ignoring. Stop changing the subject and answering questions I haven't asked. Stop calling me a bigot for raising these questions. I'd like to see more than "those are 'separate issues.'" That needs to be demonstrated, not just asserted. I'd also like to see you either A) articulate particularized limiting principles which apply to your proposal, or B) admit that there are no such limiting principles. As it is, you are doing neither. I'd also like to see you acknowledge the foreseeable consequences of your proposal, including either A) a clear acknowledgment that your proposal necessarily results in the eradication of sex-segregated spaces, or B) a reasoned explanation as to how such spaces can be maintained when you refuse to articulate any meaningful limiting principles as to who can and cannot enter those spaces. I would also like to see you address at least some of the legal repercussions of your proposal (see, e.g., here), or else explain how you think these repercussions will not happen, or that if they do happen they do not matter (to women and girls, to society in general, etc.). I'd also like to see you acknowledge that there is considerably more at stake, relative to women and girls (again, the exact group of persons for whom sex-segregated spaces were created), than just "safety," or else explain why there are no other considerations in view. I'd also like you set aside the accusations of bigotry. It's just a thought-terminating cliché that diminishes your argument in ways you do not seem to appreciate. Yes, I've probably been falling short of my aspirations in this thread. I'll work on that. Again, I had assumed your "proposal" was a studied and thoroughly-evaluated-in-advance sort of thing, rather than an off-the-cuff thing. If it was, then I would think you would be both willing and able to defend it, address its real-world ramifications (such as the eradication of sex-segregated spaces), articulate its parameters, identify limiting principles or explain where there should not be any, and so on. If it was not, then my assessment of your arguments has been off, and I should apologize. For such an apology to be sincere, I'll need clarification on this. Have you given your proposal any real scrutiny prior to presenting it here? Why have you refused, for weeks now, to either articulate limiting principles or explain why no such principles are needed? Why have you refused to acknowledge that your proposal will result in the eradication of sex-segregated spaces? These are all reasonable and obvious inquiries, and yet you have treated them as arising from "bigotry." Again: (Emphasis added.) The Massachusetts study is not an answer to the legal analysis. It counted police-logged incidents in restrooms and locker rooms in a few Boston-area towns around local gender-identity ordinances. It found those recorded incidents were rare and did not clearly rise with the ordinances. That is one narrow result under one set of assumptions. It does not measure women who stop using the room, girls who change in a stall or skip PE, employees told that objecting is a policy violation, or the same identity-as-sex rule applied to sport, shelters, and prisons. An empty or flat police file is not “what actually happened.” It is what that paper chose to count. The design is also markedly thinner than the citation implies. The treated sample is small, record systems differed by department, and matching is limited. A 2026 methodological critique in Theory and Society, The Not-So-Curious Case of the Bathroom Safety Study: Ideological Bias and the Erosion of Scholarly Scrutiny, argues the study cannot support the press-release claim that such laws “do not jeopardize safety,” only that police-logged incidents did not clearly jump in three Boston-area jurisdictions relative to their pairs. That cannot retire a statewide or national rule, and it cannot speak to institutions the authors never observed. You also have the access rule backwards. A sex-based rule does not “force manly-looking people into the women’s room.” It puts females in the women’s room and males in the men’s, including a female who looks masculine and a male who looks feminine. Self-ID is what makes sex and appearance legally irrelevant and treats a woman’s objection as the problem. If a bearded female is wrongly challenged, that is a courtesy and training failure. It is not a reason to make male admission the default. And yet again, a safety-from-reported-felony concept is not the only interest these spaces exist to serve. They exist so women and girls can undress and relieve themselves without a men in the room (I know, I know, "trans men are men" and all that is your borne-of-"empirical-reality" position, but it's not mine), and so they can say so without becoming the subject of an HR or civil-rights complaint. Those are not hypotheticals stacked against “the evidence.” They are why the category “women’s room” exists. A rule that turns admission on self-description abolishes that category whether or not next year’s larceny count moves. You are not addressing this. If your position is self-ID for bathrooms and sex for sport, shelters, and prisons, that is a carve-out you have to write into the law. The proposal under discussion does not. It uses one rule: identity governs access. A paper about restroom crime in a few towns does not make that rule harmless, and it does not make the other consequences disappear. Well, you could answer my questions instead of evading/ignoring them. Question No. 1: How, other than by assertion, are women's locker rooms, sports, and prisons “separate issues” that a self-ID bathroom rule will not reach? What legal distinction keeps identity-as-sex from traveling to and from these various points? Question No. 2: What is the limiting principle of your proposal—who may be refused entry to a women’s facility, on what showing, by whom—or do you concede there is none? Question No. 3: Does self-ID without a limiting principle extinguish sex-separated spaces in a de facto or de jure way, or both? If not, how is a “women’s” room still sex-separated when admission is the entrant’s subjective self-declaration and nothing else? Question No. 4: Which of the legal and institutional effects already identified (employer discipline of women who object, collapse of a usable sex line, the same rule in custody and sport) do you say will not occur, and why? If they occur, why do they not count? Question No. 5: Why is reported restroom crime the only interest that matters? Sex-separated spaces were built for privacy and dignity for women and girls, as well as safety. Which of these interests do you discard, and on what grounds? Question No. 6: The Massachusetts paper measured police-logged incidents in a few Boston-area towns. Why does that result answer questions 1–5? Question No. 7: State whether you are willing to set aside accusations of "bigotry." My inquiries are about the your proposal. You have already made it clear what you think of me as a person, so there's no need to keep beating that dead horse. Just answer the questions posed to you about your own proposal. I have been blunt and, to an extent, accusatory in this thread, in ways that do not conform with the Habits of a Peacemaker approach I have been attempting to implement. I will work on that. Thanks, -Smac

If it quacks like a Nazi……..

I know this is an odd topic, but I've re-watched this video several times because the design and mechanics of these wings are so beautifully done, so I had to share it. It's mesmerizing to see them function so effortlessly. And birds make these all the time all on their own! (I think there is intelligent design behind them of course). It makes you appreciate the design of actual bird wings.

Smac, I’m done. Your motte-and-bailey accusation goes well beyond saying my proposal would have harmful consequences. You are accusing me of knowingly pursuing a broader agenda, treating its harmful consequences as intended features, and concealing it behind a more defensible position. That is an accusation of both dishonesty and malicious intent. And a central piece of your evidence is that I’m a smart guy. Apparently, I’m too smart to honestly disagree with your predictions, so I must secretly know you’re right. As if your confidence in your conclusions is evidence of my dishonesty. I’ve explained why restrooms need not have the same rules as prisons, shelters, or sports. You treat those distinctions as camouflage. If I explain myself, I’m defending the motte. If I deny your accusation, I’m retreating to it. What could I possibly say that you wouldn’t interpret as further concealment? You said you were working to improve your conversations by following Steven Collis’s Habits of a Peacemaker. You specifically highlighted resisting the temptation to caricature another person’s position. How does assigning me a malicious agenda, then dismissing my stated beliefs as a cover story, put that into practice? That is an extraordinarily cynical way to treat someone who has spent weeks explaining himself to you. Your catastrophe analysis fails to engage with the Massachusetts evidence we’ve discussed. It doesn’t settle everything, but a long list of things that hypothetically could go wrong doesn't change the evidence about what actually happened when we allowed manly-looking people to use the women’s restroom rather than forcing them into the women’s as you want the law to do. I’ve been sincerely trying to explain my point of view. You’ve chosen to treat those explanations as concealment of something sinister. There’s no productive conversation left under those terms.

@bluebellI watched the podcast today. I enjoyed it. I may not be in exact accord with their claiming that Christ was personifying Himself as "the truth" in the Johanine passage. I might see it more as He was declaring Himself to be the Revelator of the Truth of His Father's plan for humanity as contained in what we call the plan of salvation. The Greek word aletheia signifies an unhiding of what has been hidden. So in that sense Christ is the unhider of what was hidden about God's plan for humanity. I ordered the book they mentioned that has been written by two BY affiliated folks. I look forward to reading that. Thanks for bringing the podcast to our attention. I'm in favor of truth as a verb and have used it in my book. It is more important that we truth (as a verb) than that we think we have the truth. I guess that is my bottom line. Thanks again and best wishes. I think I have something you asked me the other day left unanswered. I will try and go back through the threads and find it. The topic of truth is very complex indeed. All of my grammar checkers do not like me using truth as a verb. They seem to be programmed not to recognize such. Take care.

There is some historical tension with the church's portrayal of this. Yes, there are two competing theories, or perhaps three: Theory 1: The priesthood ban originated with God via revelation. Theory 2: The priesthood ban originated with man, and arose not by way of revelation, but due to historical circumstances and prevailing racialist sentiments of the mid-19th century. Theory 3: We do not have a clear, definitive picture either way regarding the origins of the priesthood ban. The Church hews toward Theory 3, and strongly denounces past theories and characterizations intended to advance Theory 1. Yes. So can I. We both agree it is possible that there was no revelation instituting the ban. We have no record of it, and we are a record-keeping Church. Consequently, Yes, our preservation of records was not complete, hence the viability of Theory 1. It's possible. I wonder how many LDS members even read the church's article about Elder Stevenson or the above sources you mention. We can all do better, but the original point was about the Church trying to "hide" its history. I just don't see that happening. Whether the Church should apologize is an unestablished premise and value judgment. I think the origins of the priesthood ban are best characterized as "theory" until and unless we get more information. Indeed, the Church is now coping with past leaders making comments not based on information / documentation / revelation. "Leading people astray." I guess we'll have to agree to disagree on that. He needed to add context so people inside and outside the LDS Church would know who the ban applied to. Not sure about that, but I'm content to leave the matter unresolved. Either the priesthood ban was from God or it was from man. Either God put a skin of blackness on the Lamanites and cursed those who married them in the same way or he did not. Either Jesus is the Eternal God or he is the first spirit child of heavenly parents who became a God. Wrong teachings lead people astray. I don't think erring in doctrine is what Pres. Woodruff had in mind. Thanks, -Smac

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And it would happen regardless of whether "sex" or "gender identity" is the ticket for entry into women's bathrooms. The difference, though, is that Roger's proposal, if enacted, would eliminate, either on a de facto or de jure basis, sex-segregated spaces. Women and girls would then have no basis, legal or otherwise, to "scrutinize" anyone. They would, instead, be compelled to put up with men in women's bathrooms. No legal recourse whatsoever. And I would also anticipate that the number of instances of men going into women's bathrooms would increase by a lot. And it gets worse. Much worse. I worked with Grok in terms of formulating plausible legal issues arising from the “whoever decides they belong here belongs here” approach. The results were grim, for society in general but particularly for those poor souls at the very bottom of the pecking order created in Roger's proposal: women and girls. (I've tweaked Grok's response a bit here and there) : Legally speaking, none of these consequences are obscure or opaque or farfetched. They are, instead, readily foreseeable. I have to think that this is readily apparent to attorneys representing trans advocacy interests. And while Roger is not an attorney, he is a very smart guy. And his ongoing failure/refusal to articulate any limiting principles to his proposal suggests, to me, that he is likewise aware of at least some of these likely ramifications. Consequently, I see this is an intentional and deliberate and large scale motte-and-bailey strategy. These outcomes are not surprises that advocacy groups and their lawyers just stumbled into. They are the ordinary consequences of the rule they ask courts and employers to adopt. People who litigate and draft statutes for a living are charged with seeing those consequences. When they refuse to address them except as “fearmongering,” that is not ignorance. It is a choice. Foreseeability is the job. A competent civil-rights lawyer, asked to replace "sex" with "self-described identity" as the admission rule for toilets, locker rooms, shelters, wards, and prisons, can forecast the ramifications in an afternoon: The women’s room ceases to be female-only. A coworker who objects becomes the disciplinary problem. HR gags speech because speech is the only remaining enforcement tool. Female prisoners and shelter residents face male bodies in spaces built around male-pattern risk. Medical charts and crime statistics break. Two plaintiff classes form and the institution silences the cheaper one. None of that requires a novel theory of harm. It is how categories work. If the criterion is no longer sex, sex-separated institutions do not survive as sex-separated institutions. Counsel who file class complaints demanding identity access to “common restrooms” and rejecting single-user alternatives as insufficient are not asking for courtesy at the sink. They are asking that the sex classification itself be treated as unlawful. They also know the appearance problem they use as a shield. They say a sex rule would send bearded females into the women’s room and invite scrutiny of butch women. That is an argument they deploy (as Roger has in this thread). This, in my view, proves they have mapped enforcement, mismatch, and social cost. They simply assign those costs to the sex rule and the (former) principal beneficiaries of them (women and girls), and assign none to self-ID—except “someone could abuse discretion,” which they then dismiss. Abuse without a screen is not an unforeseen loophole. It is the rule they wrote. Silence is evidence of awareness, not the opposite. If the cascade were genuinely unexpected, the briefs would contain limiting principles (principles which Roger has, again and again and again, failed/refused to articulate) : sincerity findings, surgical or legal-sex conditions, misconduct triggers, preservation of female-only prisons and refuges, no discipline for stating sex, single-occupancy as a complete remedy. The standard ask is the opposite. No proof. No appearance test. No “reasonable belief” defense for the woman who objects. Single-user rooms become rejected as "segregation" and discriminatory (yeesh, women and girls simply cannot catch a break under Roger's proposal). Sex-based placement in prison and shelter is treated as discrimination. Accurate sex language is treated as harassment. Compelled speech. Punished speech. Legions of new grounds for lawsuits. This package is what we get when the loss of the female-only boundary is acceptable—or intended—and the remaining problem is people who keep naming sex. Calling documented mechanisms “narratives” or “fearmongering” will be the tell (oh, and "Bigot!", as Roger has done in this thread). You do not need to disprove a consequence you have not foreseen. You need to disprove it when you have foreseen it and still want the rule. Motte and bailey. The motte is the modest claim offered to a general audience and advanced by Roger in this thread: Everyone has to pee; do not inspect strangers; intervene only for voyeurism or assault; sharing a video of a confrontation encourages vigilantism; grace is better than policing. That motte is psychologically cheap and partly true. No serious person wants bathroom sting operations. The bailey is the legal demand that will actually be filed and lobbied: Gender identity is sex for purposes of Title VII, Title IX, public accommodations, housing, and prisons; exclusion from the opposite-sex facility is sex discrimination; an employer may not cabin a trans-identifying employee in a single-user room; a women’s shelter or prison that houses by sex is engaged in a civil-rights violation; objecting speech is harassment. On the bailey, a female-only room is not a legitimate aim that must be balanced. It is the injury. The move is familiar. Defend the bailey with the motte, as I suspect Roger will do when the time comes. And when asked what happens to women who do not want males in the room, advocates such as Roger will retreat "grace," dignity, rarity of crime, the ugliness of confrontation, and so on. When writing the ordinance or the complaint, return to the bailey and treat any sex-based line as illegal. The two positions being debated here (my sex-based proposal and Roger's "anyone who wants to go in" proposal) are qualitatively difference. The latter is not the same policy as the former, but described kindly. One preserves a sex classification and asks for decency in administering it. The other abolishes the classification, a point I have noted repeatedly, and which point Roger has really not addressed. And this other proposal needs the motte so the abolition does not have to be said out loud. Feature, not bug. If “trans women are women” is a definitional claim rather than a courtesy, then a space that excludes males by definition excludes some people the movement defines as women. The sex-separated room is then not a hardship to be mitigated with a third space. It is a standing insult to the definition. That is why third spaces are so often rejected, why “passing” is disclaimed as a requirement, and why the same theory is applied without a break from the office toilet to the refuge to the prison. A bug would be patched with limits. A feature is rolled out across every institution that still uses sex. All of this is intentional and foreseeable. Indifference to the female costs follows from the same definition. If the person in the room is already classified as a woman, the woman who objects is not protecting a sex class. She is attacking a member of that class. Her foreseeably being disciplined, silenced, or told to use the side room is, on that view, correct enforcement. Advocacy organizations and their lawyers are not failing to see that. They are treating it as the system working. All of this is also intentional and foreseeable. The costs to women and girls just don't matter. We can grant every good-faith motive at the individual level (gender dysphoria is real; public humiliation is cruel; most people just want to use the toilet, etc.) and still hold the institutional actors to the rule they are actually seeking. They are sophisticated enough to know that self-ID does not leave sex-segregated spaces standing and then quietly used. That is why they fight the standing, not the etiquette. That is why the motte-and-bailey stuff is so widespread. That is why these outcomes are intended as features, not bugs, of proposals such as Roger's. That is why these outcomes are being ignored or diminished, and why those expressing concerns about those outcomes are slandered as "Bigots!" (as Roger has done in this thread). Thanks, -Smac

The behavior from your personal experience seems to match what I'm talking about. The first one, the women definitely scrutinized you. And probably would have asked you to leave or at least been very worried about you. But then a woman announced that you were with her and they felt better because there was someone escourting you. The second one, the men scrutinized the woman but accepted the situation because of the long line. If there hadn't been a long line, there might have been some more interaction. The third one, the woman knew she was crossing the rules and so asked for permission. Similar to the first one, because she had permission, no further interaction. So, scrutiny is happening. And, if the situation warrants it, they might not do anything further. But they might escalate it. We've had lawsuits that go all the way to state supreme courts on whether people can go in bathrooms and this is before 2013 and before any bathroom laws (in either direction) were implemented. There was a cultural rule that you went to the bathroom you were supposed to go to. If you didn't, you would be scrutinized, told to leave, harassed, or even arrested. It is why transgender fought for the right to go into the bathroom of their choice. Previously, they didn't have that and could be denied a bathroom.

Smac, I favor people ordinarily using the restroom corresponding to their gender identity and making that decision themselves. That includes transgender women who are biologically male, without requiring them to prove their sincerity or look sufficiently feminine. We are making some progress. I am glad of that. I asked: "Under your policy, who is the 'class' of persons that can access women's bathrooms?" You sort of answer that above: "People ordinarily using the restroom corresponding to their gender identity and making that decision themselves." You also sort of answer this one: "Under your policy, who counts as 'women' and 'girls' for the purposes of gaining access to women's bathrooms? Is it "anyone who identifies as a 'woman' or a 'girl?'" Your kinda/sort answer: "That includes transgender women who are biologically male." Okay, but does your proposal exclude any males? It seems like it does not, as all anyone has to do to gain entry is think "I 'identify' as a woman." Do you acknowledge this? Under your policy, which males are to be excluded from women's bathrooms? Do you dispute that the natural and foreseeable effect of your proposal is the elimination, either de facto or de jure or both, of sex-segregated spaces? So when I ask "Do you dispute that the natural and foreseeable effect of your proposal is the elimination, either de facto or de jure or both, of sex-segregated spaces?", and when you obliquely respond with "my approach doesn’t preserve an exclusively female admission rule," can I take your answer as, effectively, "Yes, I acknowledge that my proposal amounts to the elimination, either de facto or de jure or both, of sex-segregated spaces."? I agree that people should be able to use a restroom without being inspected, photographed, or shamed for how they look. I also agree that circulating videos of confrontations can train people to treat every ambiguous stranger as a suspect. That isn’t the culture I want. Women and girls should be left alone. So should people who are just trying to wash their hands. Where we differ is what the room is for. I think sex-separated restrooms exist because the two sexes have different bodies, different patterns of sexual offending, and a long-settled expectation of privacy and propriety and decorum regarding spaces where women are in a state of partial undress or otherwise in need of a space providing privacy, propriety and decorum. Gender identity does not change those facts. A policy of “whoever decides they belong here belongs here” is not a modest extension of grace. It is a profound and fundamental change in the admission rule from sex to self-description. You are right that my rule does not preserve an appearance-exclusive women’s room. It isn’t trying to. It preserves a sex-exclusive one. That means some females who have beards, flat chests, and masculine clothing would use the women’s room, just as some butch women already do. Encountering someone who “looks male” would not, by itself, prove the rule was broken. I accept that cost. The alternative cost is that any male who claims a female identity — or who is willing to say he does (or even sillently think to himself that he does) — has a standing invitation to go into women's bathrooms. You note that someone could abuse discretion. Under self-ID, abuse is not a loophole. It is the rule operating as written. I don’t think the possibility of abuse “doesn’t establish” anything. It is the reason we have locks, stalls, and sex designations in the first place. We already reject “most people will behave” as a sufficient reason to make locker rooms, showers, shelters, and prisons mixed-sex. Bathrooms are the same kind of space, only more common. Regarding enforcement: I do not want staff or patrons running a femininity test at the sink. A report that “someone washing her hands looks male” is not enough. I would treat it the way we already treat other low-information complaints. Staff can look for conduct: lingering without using a fixture, filming, peering under or over stalls, following a particular person, exposing genitals, or refusing to leave a stall when asked in a way that suggests they are not there to use the toilet. Sex is established the same way it is established everywhere else we still care about it—birth records, medical history, or, in the rare contested case, the same kinds of facts courts already use. Day to day, almost none of that happens. Most people self-sort. The point of a sex rule is not constant policing. It is that when there is a problem, the institution is allowed to say “this space is for females” without first litigating someone’s identity. I also think we should build more single-occupancy rooms. That is the cleanest way to give masculine-looking females, dysphoric males, and anyone who just wants a door that locks a place to go without converting the multi-stall women’s room into a mixed-sex space. You favor ordinary grace plus intervention after harassment. I favor ordinary grace inside a sex-based boundary, plus intervention after harassment. The disagreement is whether the boundary itself is worth keeping. I think it is, including for girls who cannot be expected to sort “sincere transgender woman” from “male who wants access,” and including for women whose discomfort is not a character flaw. Leaving people quietly alone is easier when the room still means what the sign says. Thanks, -Smac

Isn’t saying or is saying?

I'm not so sure, and that type of behavior isn’t exactly what I was talking about. Here is all of my personal experience. Once, my wife was having a birthday party at a busy bar/restaurant. This was about 15 years ago. One of our guests grabbed my arm and said, “Analytics! You’ve got to see this!” She then proceeded to try and drag me into the women’s restroom. I refused to go, but she absolutely insisted and refused to give up. Finally so as to not make a scene, I reluctantly followed her in. Everybody stopped what they were doing and look at me. My host said, “It’s all right everyone! He’s with me!” With that, everybody exhaled and ignored me. She showed me there was a whiteboard in the restroom, and somebody had drawn an extravagant birthday message for my wife. I spent a tenth of a second admiring it, and got the heck out. Perhaps 5 years ago, I was at a crowded downtown venue, and there was a very long line for the women’s room, and a very short line for the men’s. A woman who was an unambiguously cisgender woman got into the short line for the men’s room. She waited her turn, used the toilet, washed her hands, and got out. Everybody there felt quite uncomfortable, but everyone very deliberately ignored her. About a year after that, I was in exactly the same situation, but this time a woman asked me for permission to use the men’s room, because she had to go very badly and couldn’t wait in the women’s line. I gave her permission to use the toilet. She went in, took care of business, and got out. Again, everyone ignored her. Likewise, when Lily Contino used the women’s restroom in Disneyworld, everyone politely ignored her and nobody made a stink about it until her videos went viral, and even then, the main objection was her videoing other people in the restroom and not her presence there. Compare that to the videos Smac collects that show people whipping out there cellphones and recording themselves saying, “I just saw a tranny go into the women’s restroom, and I’m going to confront them on video when they come out!” One person in his collection actually flew across the Atlantic Ocean in order to generate this type of content, and when she got impatient waiting for the person she was stalking to use the restroom, decided to confront her in a hallway with the accusatory question, “You’re a man! What bathroom to you use???!!!!” That isn’t healthy.