The generational curse brought on by birth control

[MustardSeed]

3 hours ago, TheTanakas said:

Do you have a reference for that change?

The current General Handbook, section 38.6.4, “Birth Control,” says:

“The decision about how many children to have and when to have them is extremely personal and private. It should be left between the couple and the Lord. Church members should not judge one another in this matter.”
 

the last sentence is important to note.  Seems to me that it has been explicitly stated that your judgement of others on this topic is the actual sin? 

[Calm]

5 hours ago, TheTanakas said:

Do you have a reference for that change?

Do you want to know when it was changed or just evidence it was?

The latter:

https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/manual/gospel-topics/birth-control?lang=eng

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The decision of how many children to have and when to have them is a private matter for a husband and wife….

Decisions about birth control and the consequences of those decisions rest solely with each married couple. Elective abortion as a method of birth control, however, is contrary to the commandments of God.

Added:  oops, should have turned the page, lol

Edited Sunday at 07:44 PM by Calm

[TheTanakas]

On 8/23/2026 at 1:43 PM, MustardSeed said:

The current General Handbook, section 38.6.4, “Birth Control,” says:

“The decision about how many children to have and when to have them is extremely personal and private. It should be left between the couple and the Lord. Church members should not judge one another in this matter.”
 

the last sentence is important to note.  Seems to me that it has been explicitly stated that your judgement of others on this topic is the actual sin? 

Not my judgment, but those in these teachings:

"The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints strongly encourages married couples to 
have children. It is against birth control ... We seriously regret that there should exist a
sentiment or feeling among any members of the Church to curtail the birth of 
their children".

"Where husband and wife enjoy health and vigor and are free from impurities that would 
be entailed upon their posterity, it is contrary to the teachings of the Church artificially 
to curtail or prevent the birth of children. We believe that those who practice birth 
control will reap disappointment by and by" (May 1971 Ensign).

[MustardSeed]

57 minutes ago, TheTanakas said:

Not my judgment, but those in these teachings:

"The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints strongly encourages married couples to 
have children. It is against birth control ... We seriously regret that there should exist a
sentiment or feeling among any members of the Church to curtail the birth of 
their children".

"Where husband and wife enjoy health and vigor and are free from impurities that would 
be entailed upon their posterity, it is contrary to the teachings of the Church artificially 
to curtail or prevent the birth of children. We believe that those who practice birth 
control will reap disappointment by and by" (May 1971 Ensign).

How far back in history with much revelation in between you allow yourself to go to require yourself and others to follow the dictates of leadership, which is often taken out of context of cultural realities? Do you stop at 1970? Because there is PLENTY of directives over miriads of topics that has since been overruled by current leadership. 
where is your faith in present leadership?