My boyfriend just died but I want to still be with him for eternity

[Kenngo1969]

Condolences on your loss.

Have you ever been somewhere where you, for whatever reason, felt uncomfortable, perhaps because you didn't feel you measured up in some way with everyone else in the room?  LDS writer Brad Wilcox says that when it comes to the judgment, we have it exactly backward: We think God will be the stern taskmaster, explaining to us all of the reasons why we cannot stay in His presence; in reality, He will be the one who is pleading with us to stay, while we will be the ones saying, "Get me out of here!"

Others have done a good job responding to your questions, and I have nothing to add on that score.  As for what happens to any of us in the afterlife, God will be as merciful as He can to us, will take all of our individual earthly circumstances into account, and will judge us accordingly.  Whether we're satisfied with any of God's "beyond-the-veil" propositions will be entirely up to us.  In the end, the Omniscient, Omnipotent, All-Loving Lord of the Universe isn't going to have to tell any of us, "I know you were expecting something more, or something better, or at least something different, but ... sorry.   This is the best I could do."

I wish you well.  

[Kenngo1969]

On 11/16/2016 at 4:41 PM, pogi said:

Kamusta Mikaela? Talagang malungkot ako pag makinig ang iyong kuwento. Taga saan ka?  Nagmission ako doon sa Bicol Region. Hindi ko alam ang sagot sa iyong mga katanungan, pero alam ko na kung panatilihin ang iyong puso bukas so direksiyon ng Diyos, punan siya ang iyong ligalig na puso na may pagibig.  

Sorry, mahina na ang Tagalog ko!

 

 

On 11/19/2016 at 7:04 AM, Mikaela said:

Hello brother Pogi! Maraming salamat sa mensahe mo at sa pagsubok na magsalita ng Tagalog ulit. Magaling ka pa din naman mag Tagalog! Ako ay taga Zambales, sa Luzon. Philippines Olongapo Mission. Anong taon ka nagmission sa Pilipinas?  

 

On 11/19/2016 at 10:51 AM, pogi said:

Nagmission ako noong 1998-2000.  Matanda na ako eh!  Talagang namimiss ko ang Pilipinas.  Pag-asa ako para sa pinakamahusay na para sa iyo at sa iyong anak.

I'll never understand this younger generation!  

  

[Robert F. Smith]

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