I have to admit that I sometimes, selfishly, I want my kids and grandkids to come to church with me so I can show them off. I am a bit envious of people whose families come to church with them, even if it is just on holidays. However, I have to remind myself that it isn’t worth it if my kids are going to be miserable or uncomfortable. OTOH, when the grandkids stay overnight, no one minds if I take them to church so I get my fix that way, lol.