I believe that both plural and monogamous marriages are valid in the eyes of God. I came to this conclusion based on studying scripture for what I believe it actually says, and not what is being taught by society or religions.
Most refuse to see it as anything other than sinful. It's an easy way for me to sort through who, at the very least, has a basic understanding of what scripture actually says.
I never said I was personally looking for a husband. I certainly don't have any interest in being someone's mistress or supporting a man who cheats and lies to his wife. And I don't even know what a "pud," is lol