thesometimesaint Posted May 3, 2013 Posted May 3, 2013 Hello Urroner...Yes, and what a lovely woman she is... almost every man has a similar picture in his mind of what he'd like... I was the same way when I was younger, growing up on the beaches of So Cal... I was fortunate to be considered pretty, and was more interested in the fellows that were tanned, blue eyed, with sun bleached hair, great build... and then I grew up. Matured I should say... when I went away to college and for the first time became really acquainted with students from all over... many that could be considered plain Janes or Joes... thankfully I took the time to take a closer look at those boys and girls who were different than those So Cal kids I ran around with... what did I find? Some of them were quite plain, but not being able to depend on looks had developed other qualities such as terrific personalities or senses of humor... interesting and intelligent in numerous ways... The more I knew them, the less I noticed their plainness...This is not to say that the lovely lady you wish for does not have wonderful qualities... but I would hope you wouldn't pass over the plain Jane with mousy hair... but be willing to give her a chance along with the prettier ladies... there might just be a "diamond in the rough" so to speak... just waiting for some man to put aside his fantasy to really look at her...from the beach on a lovely May day... GGI will always see my wife as that lovely young woman I married 41 years ago. The old joints creak more, and we both walk a little slower now. We are both old and have gray hair now in the winter of our lives. The passion fires have settled down to a nice warming glow. Through it all life is good. 2
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