The last few weeks I've been pondering on what may be a newly discovered Christlike attribute (for me) and I wanted to get the forum's input on my idea.
In Preach My Gospel there are several Christlike attributes listed: Faith, Hope, Charity, Virtue, Integrity, Knowledge, Patience, Humility, Diligence, and Obedience. See: https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/manual/preach-my-gospel-2023/14-chapter-6?lang=eng and there is a fun little quiz at the bottom of that link.
The Christlike attribute I'm now considering I'm not sure what word to name it but I'll try and express the idea.
We hear in church all the time that Christ suffered in the flesh so that He would understand perfectly everything that we're going through in order to succor us. I would also argue that His perfect understanding of us will enable Him to be a perfect advocate for us at the judgment bar of God. Christ perfectly understands each individual in the Evangelical community who reacted with judgment against the LDS in Michigan and said that Latter-day Saints will burn in hell or that a return to "Christian Nationalism" cannot include the Latter-day Saints. Christ understands how incomprehensibly, impossibly stupid the "other side" of the political aisle appears to be. I believe that Jesus gives me the benefit of the doubt when considering my perspective and beliefs. I even view Him as agreeing with me in many ways and I don't think I'm unique in that belief. I believe that he understands the reasons why I believe what I do, and why I act the way I act, and that He doesn't condemn me for it. And I believe that He views my enemies the same way.
We are all wrong compared to God. The amount of truth we know is infinitesimally small compared to all their is to know. Yet I haven't personally encountered many instances in which God has told me, "You're wrong" and I don't believe He has done that very often to others. He allowed Brigham Young to preach blood atonement, he allows me to hold my wacky views, and he doesn't often correct my perspective or condemn me for holding said views even when they are wrong.
Maybe this is similar to "steel man" or that practice in debate where you study to defend a side you disagree with? I don't know what to call it but I hope I'm making sense.
People talk about being tolerant, patient, kind, compassionate, peacemakers. Yet those types of attributes aren't adequate for a perfect advocate, and they aren't exactly healing the algorithmic division existing in our hearts.
I have felt this way recently about my cousin. He has left the church and is currently going through a divorce. After hearing a brief account of his life story and some of the significant events that have happened in it, I can't blame him for acting and believing the way that he does even if I don't personally agree with all of his choices and see some ways in which he appears foolish (like picking up a cigarette habit).
Is what I'm talking about a Christlike attribute? What would you call it? How would you more succinctly define it? Is there any scriptural backing for this idea? Is it a bad thing? These are fresh thoughts so sorry for the text wall. Also, if I'm not really conveying my idea properly please let me know and I'll see if I can rephrase my thoughts better. I'm hoping that the discussion here will help me learn more about these ideas I've been having.