In a now locked thread, Storm Rider said: Then because they were raped everyone is supposed to back off, not punish, ignore everything she has consciously chosen to do, look the other way because she was an idiot and was raped by another idiot.  How many young men who are idiots are given the same leeway when really bad things happen to them?  Just curious where all these mercy warriors are when it is a male that has gotten into trouble?   My response (written while the thread was