The Nehor Posted August 5, 2022 Share Posted August 5, 2022 Okay, maybe it is just an unfortunate choice of words and…. Oh dear………wait, this is satire right? *checks* Nope, not satire. Oh, some kinkiness, this I can get behind and….. ……never mind. Abusive relationship just waiting to happen. Good to know the LGBT community does not have a monopoly on “grooming” people. Looks like the pedophiles (actual groomers), Christians (weird abusive version of grooming), and LGBT community (made up grooming) can all unite in their love of grooming without any of the definitions meaning the same thing. UNITY!!!!!! KUMBAYA!!!! 2 Link to comment
jkwilliams Posted August 5, 2022 Share Posted August 5, 2022 That’s some seriously creepy stuff. 2 Link to comment
Kenngo1969 Posted August 5, 2022 Share Posted August 5, 2022 I don't want to discount the views of anyone who thinks that the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints has a problem with patriarchy, but ... the Church ain't got nothin' on this guy! 1 Link to comment
The Nehor Posted August 6, 2022 Author Share Posted August 6, 2022 (edited) 38 minutes ago, Kenngo1969 said: I don't want to discount the views of anyone who thinks that the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints has a problem with patriarchy, but ... the Church ain't got nothin' on this guy! The beginning of a deep rabbit hole. He is okay with premarital sex as long as you have committed to each other because marriage licenses aren’t in the Bible (I am sure there is a story there). He has a lot of articles about sex. Short version: Women were created for men so pretty much anything goes and women are there to make men happy. He justifies rampant lust and pornography. He goes through a lot of questionable scripture to share his basis for what is allowed. He argues that divorce is okay because God metaphorically divorced Israel which is dubious since she is supposed to be reunited with him. Funny, he got a divorce. Importantly women cannot initiate a divorce because they are the husband’s property. That is not me satirizing with hyperbole either. He thinks feminism went too far in the mid-1800s. Pro-ethnostate, no surprise there. White Christian Nationalist also gets a big checkmark. He is pro-polygyny, even if it breaks the law. I flirted with and played in polyamory in my sinful days but this guy’s justification for having multiple wives is mostly about how the man gets more sex, gets an heir, and can even supplement income if some of his wives work part-time. What a deal! Edited August 6, 2022 by The Nehor Link to comment
Bernard Gui Posted August 6, 2022 Share Posted August 6, 2022 1 hour ago, The Nehor said: The beginning of a deep rabbit hole. He is okay with premarital sex as long as you have committed to each other because marriage licenses aren’t in the Bible (I am sure there is a story there). He has a lot of articles about sex. Short version: Women were created for men so pretty much anything goes and women are there to make men happy. He justifies rampant lust and pornography. He goes through a lot of questionable scripture to share his basis for what is allowed. He argues that divorce is okay because God metaphorically divorced Israel which is dubious since she is supposed to be reunited with him. Funny, he got a divorce. Importantly women cannot initiate a divorce because they are the husband’s property. That is not me satirizing with hyperbole either. He thinks feminism went too far in the mid-1800s. Pro-ethnostate, no surprise there. White Christian Nationalist also gets a big checkmark. He is pro-polygyny, even if it breaks the law. I flirted with and played in polyamory in my sinful days but this guy’s justification for having multiple wives is mostly about how the man gets more sex, gets an heir, and can even supplement income if some of his wives work part-time. What a deal! Nope. Link to comment
Nofear Posted August 6, 2022 Share Posted August 6, 2022 (edited) deleted... wrong thread Edited August 6, 2022 by Nofear Link to comment
The Nehor Posted August 6, 2022 Author Share Posted August 6, 2022 (edited) I love this guy. If there is a chauvinist reason to want to break the commandments he will. Speaking of divorce he makes it clear that in the Bible divorcing women got nothing so that is the way it should be today and that leads into: “It is for these reasons that I absolutely encourage Christian men going through divorce to practice deception when it comes to their assets and income wherever they can while they are in this spiritual and legal war otherwise known as divorce.“ Absolute garbage person. Family Court Judges usually eat these clowns alive. It is so cute how they think they invented a neat trick that divorce judges don’t see from every halfwit that shows up. Edited August 6, 2022 by The Nehor 3 Link to comment
bluebell Posted August 6, 2022 Share Posted August 6, 2022 5 minutes ago, The Nehor said: I love this guy. If there is a chauvinist reason to want to break the commandments he will. Speaking of divorce he makes it clear that in the Bible divorcing women got nothing so that is the way it should be today and that leads into: “It is for these reasons that I absolutely encourage Christian men going through divorce to practice deception when it comes to their assets and income wherever they can while they are in this spiritual and legal war otherwise known as divorce.“ Absolute garbage person. Family Court Judges usually eat these clowns alive. It is so cute how they think they invented a neat trick that divorce judges don’t see from every halfwit that shows up. He is the WORST. Link to comment
CV75 Posted August 6, 2022 Share Posted August 6, 2022 On 8/5/2022 at 7:17 PM, The Nehor said: Okay, maybe it is just an unfortunate choice of words and…. Oh dear………wait, this is satire right? *checks* Nope, not satire. Oh, some kinkiness, this I can get behind and….. ……never mind. Abusive relationship just waiting to happen. Good to know the LGBT community does not have a monopoly on “grooming” people. Looks like the pedophiles (actual groomers), Christians (weird abusive version of grooming), and LGBT community (made up grooming) can all unite in their love of grooming without any of the definitions meaning the same thing. UNITY!!!!!! KUMBAYA!!!! Inmate grooming can be a wholesome part of every marriage as well as part of good hygiene. I provide a tasteful, cash-under-the-table or barter-exchange service for the latter. 2 Link to comment
Calm Posted August 7, 2022 Share Posted August 7, 2022 (edited) “Inmate grooming”….kind of an appropriate typo considering the linked website, imo. (Intimate grooming?) Edited August 7, 2022 by Calm 2 Link to comment
CV75 Posted August 7, 2022 Share Posted August 7, 2022 1 hour ago, Calm said: “Inmate grooming”….kind of an appropriate typo considering the linked website, imo. (Intimate grooming?) Ha-ha! either way! Inmates have feelings, too! Link to comment
Orthodox Christian Posted August 7, 2022 Share Posted August 7, 2022 On 8/6/2022 at 12:17 AM, The Nehor said: Okay, maybe it is just an unfortunate choice of words and…. Oh dear………wait, this is satire right? *checks* Nope, not satire. Oh, some kinkiness, this I can get behind and….. ……never mind. Abusive relationship just waiting to happen. Good to know the LGBT community does not have a monopoly on “grooming” people. Looks like the pedophiles (actual groomers), Christians (weird abusive version of grooming), and LGBT community (made up grooming) can all unite in their love of grooming without any of the definitions meaning the same thing. UNITY!!!!!! KUMBAYA!!!! Where was the first quite from? I knew some Christians years ago who took the Bible's advice on marriage to the extreme. Very similar views on wifely subjection. The young man's response though is worrying to say the least, to think that he believes that he can legitimately beat his wife into submission is a far cry from any proper view of marriage Christian or not. 1 Link to comment
Stargazer Posted August 7, 2022 Share Posted August 7, 2022 10 hours ago, Calm said: “Inmate grooming”….kind of an appropriate typo considering the linked website, imo. (Intimate grooming?) I have the feeling that autocorrect is a factor here. I think it was supposed to be "primate grooming", given the nature of the video. Maybe. Link to comment
The Nehor Posted August 7, 2022 Author Share Posted August 7, 2022 2 hours ago, Orthodox Christian said: Where was the first quite from? I knew some Christians years ago who took the Bible's advice on marriage to the extreme. Very similar views on wifely subjection. The young man's response though is worrying to say the least, to think that he believes that he can legitimately beat his wife into submission is a far cry from any proper view of marriage Christian or not. https://biblicalgenderroles.com/2020/07/16/7-steps-to-grooming-your-christian-wife/ Link to comment
The Nehor Posted August 8, 2022 Author Share Posted August 8, 2022 1 hour ago, theguy said: A woman should submit to her husband but punishing her in these ways only serves as evidence that she isn't ready to be your wife. Perhaps I spoke too soon about that form of punishment being too harsh. Someone needs a beating. Link to comment
Calm Posted August 8, 2022 Share Posted August 8, 2022 (edited) 20 minutes ago, The Nehor said: Perhaps I spoke too soon about that form of punishment being too harsh. Someone needs a beating. I wonder if one of the owners of the grooming one’s wife stopped by. Can they see where people are coming from to view their website? Traffic iow…oops, I see they are a member…somehow. Let’s hope just a kid who is bored on a summer’s night and playing at being extreme. Edited August 8, 2022 by Calm Link to comment
The Nehor Posted August 8, 2022 Author Share Posted August 8, 2022 7 minutes ago, Calm said: I wonder if one of the owners of the grooming one’s wife stopped by. Can they see where people are coming from to view their website? Traffic iow…oops, I see they are a member…somehow. Let’s hope just a kid who is bored on a summer’s night and playing at being extreme. My guess is Freedom Forum denizen. Link to comment
bluebell Posted August 8, 2022 Share Posted August 8, 2022 9 hours ago, The Nehor said: My guess is Freedom Forum denizen. Seems like a troll. Link to comment
rodheadlee Posted August 8, 2022 Share Posted August 8, 2022 (edited) I couldn't imagine trying to groom my wife when we first got married. I watched her Kick a Hole in the front door chest High, barefooted. It's been a wild ride but I can't imagine a better partner to travel with for 30,000 miles in the big wide ocean in a little sailboat. She stood her watch no matter how big the Seas were and no matter how hard it was raining. I couldn't imagine being married to a woman who wanted to be groomed. Edited August 8, 2022 by rodheadlee 4 Link to comment
bluebell Posted August 8, 2022 Share Posted August 8, 2022 53 minutes ago, rodheadlee said: I couldn't imagine trying to groom my wife when we first got married. I watched her Kick a Hole in the front door chest High, barefooted. It's been a wild ride but I can't imagine a better partner to travel with for 30,000 miles in the big wide ocean in a little sailboat. She stood her watch no matter how big the Seas were and no matter how hard it was raining. I couldn't imagine being married to a woman who wanted to be groomed. Very few out there want to be groomed. Most who ended up in these kinds of marriages are taught that they need to be because they are deficient/sinful on their own, and they trust the people who say it. 4 Link to comment
Tacenda Posted August 11, 2022 Share Posted August 11, 2022 (edited) On 8/7/2022 at 6:55 AM, The Nehor said: https://biblicalgenderroles.com/2020/07/16/7-steps-to-grooming-your-christian-wife/ I think the Bible scriptures that propagate this BS, is a lot of reasons I hate it. https://hebraicthought.org/male-violence-against-women-in-genesis/ ETA: After reading this article, I guess part of the problem is the misreading of the scriptures. Edited August 11, 2022 by Tacenda Link to comment
Popular Post LoudmouthMormon Posted August 12, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted August 12, 2022 Heh. Reading this gave me serious Hulu Banner of Heaven vibes. You know what it didn't give me? Vibes having anything to do with my church, my faith, any of the LDS couples I know. I've probably heard a handful of stories of teen boys thinking crap like this. I've never heard of one making it actually through a few years of marriage. 5 Link to comment
Tacenda Posted August 12, 2022 Share Posted August 12, 2022 (edited) 13 minutes ago, LoudmouthMormon said: Heh. Reading this gave me serious Hulu Banner of Heaven vibes. You know what it didn't give me? Vibes having anything to do with my church, my faith, any of the LDS couples I know. I've probably heard a handful of stories of teen boys thinking crap like this. I've never heard of one making it actually through a few years of marriage. I agree, unless sometimes it's hidden. But I think this happens in other churches more, you wouldn't see an article like this from a member in good standing from our church, haha. I do believe women in our church rock. And wouldn't put up with that BS. And nor do I think men in the LDS church would do that, but there are a few possibly, but they wouldn't last long as members. Edited August 12, 2022 by Tacenda Link to comment
Rain Posted August 12, 2022 Share Posted August 12, 2022 44 minutes ago, Tacenda said: I agree, unless sometimes it's hidden. But I think this happens in other churches more, you wouldn't see an article like this from a member in good standing from our church, haha. I do believe women in our church rock. And wouldn't put up with that BS. And nor do I think men in the LDS church would do that, but there are a few possibly, but they wouldn't last long as members. It happens to everyone in and out of any church. People who are life long members. Most will teach against it, but there will always be people like this in this life unfortunately. So we do the best we can to teach others there is another way. Link to comment
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