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2 minutes ago, rongo said:

What are we to make of it, if/when the Church leaves Brother Wilcox in his calling and he continues to speak to congregations as a counselor in the General Sunday School Presidency --- without issuing a condemning statement? 

What should be read into that?

Well, in this case, he's been saying these things for decades, he's even apologized a time or two, but the Church has done nothing. Read into that what you will.

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25 minutes ago, Buckeye said:

Like all gifts priesthood is meant to bless others and only when blessing others is the priesthood holder blessed. Certainly women are meant to be blessed through priesthood conferred to men, but the priesthood isn’t meaningless in situations lacking women. Consider as an example a sacrament meeting at a YM encampment. 

We teach that women in the church work through priesthood authority now. So would you consider women’s use of priesthood meaningless without men? 

1 Cor 11:11, "neither is the man without the woman, neither the woman without the man, in the Lord."

A man cannot be a bishop without a wife, and this applies as well to other LDS leaders.  A man cannot be exalted without a wife.  His priesthood is meaningless without his female companion -- who is described as being his equal in Genesis.  Indeed, the man merely exercises priesthood authority -- acting on behalf of God, at God's behest, something which women do regularly in the temple (without men present).  How can a woman perform priesthood ordinances without a man if they have no priesthood authority?  How is it that women can serve missions and other callings?  Because they are exercising priesthood authority.  Pres Oaks explained that in detail.  https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/general-conference/2014/04/the-keys-and-authority-of-the-priesthood?lang=eng

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4 hours ago, Calm said:

And women’s priesthood whatever it is (delegated, innate, temple endowed) is meaningless without men and much more so it would seem, at least at this point. 
A man may be single and be able to perform the sacrament for other men and baptize with no women present. 
A woman cannot perform any of the usual temple ordinances performed by women if one of the temple presidency is not in the temple that day, whether or not she is married, whether or not the temple matron is there. 
There are solely female branches in Hong Kong that meet every day of the week to accommodate the many female workers who can’t get off on Sundays, but there is a branch President who oversees and performs the Sacrament for them (though iirc the women then pass it out.)

https://www.deseret.com/2014/4/11/20539188/lds-church-meetings-held-every-day-of-the-week-in-hong-kong

https://www.sltrib.com/religion/local/2017/12/24/mormon-congregations-in-hong-kong-unlike-any-others-theyre-virtually-all-women-and-they-dont-just-hold-services-on-sundays/

The exceptions prove the rule.  We saw this with the Relief Society under Joseph and Emma.  Why?  Because God can make whatever arrangements He wants in his Church, even authorizing women to be prophets if need be.  The most telling point is that none of us can be gods without both male & female being exalted together.  Why?  If men have all power alone, that just would not be true.

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11 minutes ago, rongo said:

What are we to make of it, if/when the Church leaves Brother Wilcox in his calling and he continues to speak to congregations as a counselor in the General Sunday School Presidency --- without issuing a condemning statement? 

What should be read into that?

I'm still wondering, was he speaking to congregations as a counselor in the YM's general presidency (not sunday school, right?)?  Because he's been giving these kinds of talks long before he was called as a general officer.  And as far as I know, previous counselors in the YM general presidency did not do the fireside circuit, so it doesn't appear to be a responsibility of the calling.

It seems that he was giving these talks because of who he is (and more like a book tour or FSY guest speaker), and not because of his calling.

But, if he does continue to give firesides (which I don't think will happen because I don't think he'll get many more invitations from Stake Presidents), the only way it would not be a huge scandal would be if he used that opportunity to apologize and restate his positions to one's more in line with official church teachings.

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11 minutes ago, Robert F. Smith said:

1 Cor 11:11, "neither is the man without the woman, neither the woman without the man, in the Lord."

A man cannot be a bishop without a wife, and this applies as well to other LDS leaders.  A man cannot be exalted without a wife.  His priesthood is meaningless without his female companion -- who is described as being his equal in Genesis.  Indeed, the man merely exercises priesthood authority -- acting on behalf of God, at God's behest, something which women do regularly in the temple (without men present).  How can a woman perform priesthood ordinances without a man if they have no priesthood authority?  How is it that women can serve missions and other callings?  Because they are exercising priesthood authority.  Pres Oaks explained that in detail.  https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/general-conference/2014/04/the-keys-and-authority-of-the-priesthood?lang=eng

I think that Buckeye would probably say that women are able to do those things because they are given priesthood authority by a man who has been ordained and received keys.  But that men are do not have to depend on receiving anything from a woman to do those same things.

Thus, in the bolded examples, women are dependant upon a man for their authority but men are not dependant upon a woman for theirs.

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29 minutes ago, rongo said:

Your suggestion above is just as speculative (with no Church position) as the disfavored ones are (from a nailed down, non-speculation standpoint).

The problem is presenting any as authoritative imo or as applied to a group of people rather than on an individual basis. 

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1 minute ago, Calm said:

The problem is presenting any as authoritative imo or as applied to a group of people rather than on an individual basis. 

Exactly.  It's one thing to talk about this stuff on a message board or among friends, or even offer it as a possiblity in a sunday school class.  It's completely different for a GO to teach it over the pulpit.

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Quick question - Is a managing director of a church organization a general officer? I have had the privilege of having known and had extensive chats with several church managing directors, both at conferences and here in my home. How does a managing director fit into the hierarchy of the church? I have tremendous regard for one gentleman who left his managing director position to become a Mission President. Is that considered a promotion, or just a different type of calling?

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6 minutes ago, Navidad said:

Quick question - Is a managing director of a church organization a general officer? I have had the privilege of having known and had extensive chats with several church managing directors, both at conferences and here in my home. How does a managing director fit into the hierarchy of the church? I have tremendous regard for one gentleman who left his managing director position to become a Mission President. Is that considered a promotion, or just a different type of calling?

I haven't ever heard of a managing director, so I really have no idea where they fit in.

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3 hours ago, california boy said:

How would someone not of the tribe of Levi qualify for the priesthood when the Old Testament says it was taken from all the other tribes?  And if just being a prophet somehow qualifies you to receive the priesthood, what about the women in the Bible that were prophets?  Wouldn't they qualify for the priesthood because they were prophets also?

Called directly by God as far as I can tell from the Bible and Book of Mormon. I don’t remember how it is taught in church and not intending to research for the moment. If anyone can share what they have heard, I would be interested. 

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28 minutes ago, Navidad said:

Quick question - Is a managing director of a church organization a general officer? I have had the privilege of having known and had extensive chats with several church managing directors, both at conferences and here in my home. How does a managing director fit into the hierarchy of the church? I have tremendous regard for one gentleman who left his managing director position to become a Mission President. Is that considered a promotion, or just a different type of calling?

Only these groups are GOs:

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General Officers include the General Presidencies of the Relief Society, Primary, Sunday School, Young Women, and Young Men organizations.

https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/learn/global-leadership-of-the-church?lang=eng
 

My guess is the others are considered purely administrative positions and not spiritual leadership positions.  They wanted to call my dad to one of the physical facilities types of work and he said no thanks, I retired so as not to have to be doing that stuff. While there was some pressure of accepting to contribute to the Lord’s work, nothing spiritual was ever attached to it.  Same thing as far as I could tell with the calling of my brother in law’s father who was over church building for all the church iirc a couple of decades ago. He never spoke based on that work (he was a prisoner of war and did a few firesides with that as a central theme iirc).

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8 hours ago, Scott Lloyd said:

It was offered at first as a simple correction that, with one or two exceptions,  instead of being accepted in the spirit offered was mocked, ridiculed and marginalized. It was met with absurd assertions that required further correction, such as “It’s a distinction without a difference” or “The difference between them is almost non-existent.” How would you expect a normal person to respond to such behavior?

You say that nobody has claimed Brother Wilcox was “a member of the 70, quorum of the 12 or the First Presidency.” Do you not understand that, by definition, to falsely call a man a General Authority and then to double down on it when corrected is tantamount to claiming that very thing? 
 

To me, the calling of General Authority is very sacred. I don’t like to see the definition of it blurred, so when I see it happening, I’m apt to speak up. 

 15 pages of discussion here, and countless comments elsewhere about what almost everyone agrees are tone deaf and often derisive comments about "the blacks," "stupid" critics, shrill "girls," and other Christians "playing church," from a leader in the church, and the real problem for you was that a few people failed to note a distinction in rank that you think is sacred, but doesn't change or address any of the above problems in his talk and possibly church culture and society that led to them. I've been in the church for decades, granted that isn't as long as many on this board, but I've still never seen anyone obsessed with rank like you are (to the point that you lob "less than impress[ive]" personal insults when I explain why its meaningless in addressing any of the above problems.)

I marvel at someone who can look an outrageous talk in the face, which substantively attacks several groups of people and then complain that he is the victim, even as he shows more regard for the rank of GAs than the groups actually being attacked. Maybe you could think and behave like doing unto the "least of these" is sacred as well. Show some umbrage for fellow Christians that try to live a godly life and get told they are pretending. Care about ministering with good, personalized answers to black people who wonder about comparatively recent church policy that excluded them and the feelings that they still aren't fully heard or understood by the dominant culture. I don't think any of the above is outrageous, and they certainly aren't less important than pettifogging rank. 

But nope, you care about rank. Your point is noted. Thank you for the clarification. For the 4th time just in this post and the 20th time on this thread, it still doesn't address any of the meaningful issues at hand. 

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35 minutes ago, rongo said:

What are we to make of it, if/when the Church leaves Brother Wilcox in his calling and he continues to speak to congregations as a counselor in the General Sunday School Presidency --- without issuing a condemning statement? 

What should be read into that?

It wouldn't surprise me if he continued to speak on other topics...being very careful to not get near the sexist/racist stuff. However, I don't know who would invite him given other choices, at least for a long time. 

I suspect higher ranking church people are only surrounded by approving people. As in, they aren't going to go to a "street smart" feminist/Black member to vet their talks. Someone who is familiar with hot topics could point out the problems and give alternatives in minutes. It is so blasted easy. I hope Wilcox will never again call women girls or say "the blacks" for starters, but I'm not encouraged by his nonapology followed by his wife's reaction to the criticism. 

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32 minutes ago, bluebell said:

I think that Buckeye would probably say that women are able to do those things because they are given priesthood authority by a man who has been ordained and received keys.  But that men are do not have to depend on receiving anything from a woman to do those same things.

Thus, in the bolded examples, women are dependant upon a man for their authority but men are not dependant upon a woman for theirs.

Would you say the same of exalted men and women who happen to be husband and wife?  Note that the man could not be exalted without the woman.  He cannot exercise his priesthood power on his own.  The same for a man who is bishop.  He could not be a bishop if not married.

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30 minutes ago, Calm said:

But not without a man presiding somewhere in the temple. A member of the temple presidency must be in the temple. 
But they serve under the authority of a mission President, not the MP’s wife. 

That might  be a distinction without a difference.  Dallin Oaks said:

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“When a woman—young or old—is set apart to preach the gospel as a full-time missionary, she is given priesthood authority to perform a priesthood function. The same is true when a woman is set apart to function as an officer or teacher in a Church organization under the direction of one who holds the keys of the priesthood.”  https://www.thechurchnews.com/living-faith/2019-02-21/lds-org-president-oaks-dallin-highlights-how-women-are-essential-participants-of-the-priesthood-4648

 

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3 minutes ago, juliann said:

None of this addresses the day to day restrictions on women in the church. We have spent decades coming up with reasons why it shouldn't matter. I ceertainly used to. But at some point, we need to come to terms with the pragmatic reality of a situation where women are denied ultimate decision making along with access to most offices of the church. It matters. 

We have a good example of why it matters because of the latest misstep of a male leader. How much longer can we acknowledge how problematic his content was while still denying the underlying issues? We don't need to blow up the church to merely admit we cannot continue with the exclusion and "othering" without damaging the church we love. We don't need to malign the church, anymore than we need to malign Wilcox to point out what was damaging and offensive in his words. 

All good points, but not taking account of the Relief Society under Emma.  As usual, the exceptions prove the rule.  Then there are the biblical examples of female prophets.  This may cause some discomfort, but it allows for much wider possibilities than we ordinarily think of.

As to Brad, who is a member of my stake (and he and I were both in cub scouting at the same time), if I didn't know better I'd think that he had been smoking some dope, but no that's not him.  Very strange.

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4 minutes ago, Robert F. Smith said:

Would you say the same of exalted men and women who happen to be husband and wife?  Note that the man could not be exalted without the woman.  He cannot exercise his priesthood power on his own.  The same for a man who is bishop.  He could not be a bishop if not married.

The reality is that men do not need women, in this life, to use their priesthood but women do need men, in this life, to use "theirs" (the quotes are because women are not ordained and men are, so there is a difference to that word that should be acknowledged). 

That men and women cannot be exalted without each other does not negate or change the first statement.

I'm not sure on the bishop stuff.  I know that it's policy that bishops be married, but I don't know that it's an absolute.  For example, if all that were available were single men and there was no likelihood of a married man showing up anytime in the future, perhaps a single man could be called. 

However, if only women were available, I don't believe a woman could be called as a bishop.

 

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9 minutes ago, Robert F. Smith said:

All good points, but not taking account of the Relief Society under Emma.  As usual, the exceptions prove the rule.  Then there are the biblical examples of female prophets.  This may cause some discomfort, but it allows for much wider possibilities than we ordinarily think of.

 

But we don’t live with the speculative theology behind it all or the what life is like on the exalted level at this point of our existence. We are looking for explanations to explain what is happening in the here and now. To point to an eternal principle that is at best only partially lived in this life as if it should satisfy our questions is ineffective, imo. 
 

What Joseph set up has been altered by later prophets. Emma is long dead and not the least viewed as any church authority these days. And when was the last time we call as a church a specific living woman a prophet and she was teaching the church in that capacity?  
 

So how do those examples do anything to tell us what is going on now?  Future potential, they are very applicable.  Here and now, not. 

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46 minutes ago, Navidad said:

Quick question - Is a managing director of a church organization a general officer? I have had the privilege of having known and had extensive chats with several church managing directors, both at conferences and here in my home. How does a managing director fit into the hierarchy of the church? I have tremendous regard for one gentleman who left his managing director position to become a Mission President. Is that considered a promotion, or just a different type of calling?

I don't think so. The managing directors are more like non-ecclesiastical positions of the church. Some examples:
Missionary Department
Church History Department
Public Affairs Department
Headquarter Facilities
BYU Broadcasting
Materials Management
Meetinghouse Facilities
Special Projects
Church Security Department

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