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by the way I have changed my screen name. It is an effort to begin anew. In case you doubt it is me you may look at past threads and notice the name change as well

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Thank you.

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LOG - your stellar!!!! and yes Everyone loves LOG

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Why me- & Everyone else

I didn't find answers to the questions and would still enjoy exploring those what I found was the peace not to make the questions the end all be all to my faith. There are questions about Jesus, Questions about creation, Questions about morality, Once you start down that slippery slope .... there's the old saying, If you don't stand for something you will fall for anything.

I see that now, not in a making excuses to find reason to believe, but instead tofind that thing that fits, that feels right, that is accompanied by the spirit and then not sweat the small stuff.

For those who say that is ignoring truth I will say this.

1.) If one picks apart the details of mormonism and decides they must leave, then that same critical eye will challenge them in other faiths where scripturally things are missing or not as they should be, One will pick apart the Savior until he no longer is, one will struggle to find his place in a world without having skepticism with every spiritual facet.

2.) Just as there are details that are frustrating to the minds eye, there are miracles and wonderful things that took place to allow for the restoration. Logically it has never been a shoe in. It is just as difficult to be convinced on evidence that the church is not true as it is to say it is a fraud. That is why the so many of those who are on the fence are on the fence and why so many that have left can't leave the church alone. Many of them are hoping and waiting for extra proof to come along to convince them it is true. Some are keeping contact just in case.

Let's say I was baptist. If I found enough problems in their history or theology to find cause to leave, I personally couldn't find value in hanging around baptist web sites ect....

The issue for almost 95% of us here is Mormonism intrigues us. We see the 100 possible reasons why some say it is not what it says it is. And then there are a 100 reasons why it is exactly what it says it is. Without it being clear cut, and nothing is, We have to understand that when we use reason and weigh the evidence, nothing in religion is clear cut (with the exception maybe of scientology and heaven's gate and even they find followers who believe). Without it being clear cut one has to lean on God for the answers. I had done that at multiple times in my life and I was always given bigger spiritual experiences then my faith deserved.

Spiritually I had been given answers at every turn pointing to the truthfulness of the church. I have not had that in question from my first thread here. And Now I simply see that with his divine answers on one side, the ability to find what the mind sees at incongruities in every faith, and the fact that there is more then enough reason and evidence to sustain faith; I choose to lean on the Lord and his answers to me up to this moment and stop nitpicking the details.

Faith is messy, it it wasn't it would be too easy to find the right path, to see God so clearly without having to ever do anything on one's own. One would be left knowing truth without ever growing faith...... that is not a recipe for becoming and inheriting all that God has.

Edited by DBMormon
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Glad to see that even among the difficulty of reconciling the mind with heart, faith can fill the void for you. Hope it continues.

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Why me- & Everyone else

I didn't find answers to the questions and would still enjoy exploring those what I found was the peace not to make the questions the end all be all to my faith. There are questions about Jesus, Questions about creation, Questions about morality, Once you start down that slippery slope .... there's the old saying, If you don't stand for something you will fall for anything.

I see that now, not in a making excuses to find reason to believe, but instead tofind that thing that fits, that feels right, that is accompanied by the spirit and then not sweat the small stuff.

For those who say that is ignoring truth I will say this.

1.) If one picks apart the details of mormonism and decides they must leave, then that same critical eye will challenge them in other faiths where scripturally things are missing or not as they should be, One will pick apart the Savior until he no longer is, one will struggle to find his place in a world without having skepticism with every spiritual facet.

2.) Just as there are details that are frustrating to the minds eye, there are miracles and wonderful things that took place to allow for the restoration. Logically it has never been a shoe in. It is just as difficult to be convinced on evidence that the church is not true as it is to say it is a fraud. That is why the so many of those who are on the fence are on the fence and why so many that have left can't leave the church alone. Many of them are hoping and waiting for extra proof to come along to convince them it is true. Some are keeping contact just in case.

Let's say I was baptist. If I found enough problems in their history or theology to find cause to leave, I personally couldn't find value in hanging around baptist web sites ect....

The issue for almost 95% of us here is Mormonism intrigues us. We see the 100 possible reasons why some say it is not what it says it is. And then there are a 100 reasons why it is exactly what it says it is. Without it being clear cut, and nothing is, We have to understand that when we use reason and weigh the evidence, nothing in religion is clear cut (with the exception maybe of scientology and heaven's gate and even they find followers who believe). Without it being clear cut one has to lean on God for the answers. I had done that at multiple times in my life and I was always given bigger spiritual experiences then my faith deserved.

Spiritually I had been given answers at every turn pointing to the truthfulness of the church. I have not had that in question from my first thread here. And Now I simply see that with his divine answers on one side, the ability to find what the mind sees at incongruities in every faith, and the fact that there is more then enough reason and evidence to sustain faith; I choose to lean on the Lord and his answers to me up to this moment and stop nitpicking the details.

Faith is messy, it it wasn't it would be too easy to find the right path, to see God so clearly without having to ever do anything on one's own. One would be left knowing truth without ever growing faith...... that is not a recipe for becoming and inheriting all that God has.

Well said.

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DBMormon, I'm glad you have found peace through faith. However, I have a few issues with some of your reasoning in your last post.

1.) If one picks apart the details of mormonism and decides they must leave, then that same critical eye will challenge them in other faiths where scripturally things are missing or not as they should be, One will pick apart the Savior until he no longer is, one will struggle to find his place in a world without having skepticism with every spiritual facet.

This is quite often true. Those who look critically at the mormon church often do apply the same reasoning to other forms of religion. To do otherwise would be to apply a double standard. And many of them do conclude that all religion suffers from the same problems and does not hold up to their standard of truth. However, it is not a given that all those who reject religion will never again find peace in their lives. Many atheists report being more fulfilled and having more joy without religion than they had with it. Some may say they are lying, or that they don't know what true happiness is, but in the end, we all have to live our own lives, and nobody can completely know the mind of another. At least nobody among us regular mortals.

2.) Just as there are details that are frustrating to the minds eye, there are miracles and wonderful things that took place to allow for the restoration. Logically it has never been a shoe in. It is just as difficult to be convinced on evidence that the church is not true as it is to say it is a fraud. That is why the so many of those who are on the fence are on the fence and why so many that have left can't leave the church alone. Many of them are hoping and waiting for extra proof to come along to convince them it is true. Some are keeping contact just in case.

Let's say I was baptist. If I found enough problems in their history or theology to find cause to leave, I personally couldn't find value in hanging around baptist web sites ect....

The issue for almost 95% of us here is Mormonism intrigues us. We see the 100 possible reasons why some say it is not what it says it is. And then there are a 100 reasons why it is exactly what it says it is. Without it being clear cut, and nothing is, We have to understand that when we use reason and weigh the evidence, nothing in religion is clear cut (with the exception maybe of scientology and heaven's gate and even they find followers who believe). Without it being clear cut one has to lean on God for the answers. I had done that at multiple times in my life and I was always given bigger spiritual experiences then my faith deserved.

It would be more accurate to say the evidence on both sides is equal to you. Obviously, some find the evidence they see to be overwhelmingly in favor of the truth claims of the church. And there are others who see the evidence as being overwhelmingly against it. Additionally, a big part of what constitutes most people's evidence one way or the other is their own personal spiritual experiences, which for the most part do not translate as evidence to others. At least not in the same way. They can become testimonies to others, but I don't know of anyone who will argue that the testimony of others is a valid substitute for your own witness of the spirit. On the whole, I think there are relatively few people who would agree that the evidence is equal on both sides.

But even if you're correct about that, I disagree with your assertion that it's the main reason for those who lose belief to stay engaged with the church in some way. Like it or not, Mormonism is much more than just its theology. It's our families, it's our community, it's a large part of our culture, and it gets into us. All that doesn't just go away with a change of beliefs. Those who leave the church have their own individual ways of dealing with its effect on them, but I think it's completely unrealistic to expect that they would be able to just quit whole hog and never think about the church again.

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Thank you for your comment

This is quite often true. Those who look critically at the mormon church often do apply the same reasoning to other forms of religion. To do otherwise would be to apply a double standard. And many of them do conclude that all religion suffers from the same problems and does not hold up to their standard of truth. However, it is not a given that all those who reject religion will never again find peace in their lives. Many atheists report being more fulfilled and having more joy without religion than they had with it. Some may say they are lying, or that they don't know what true happiness is, but in the end, we all have to live our own lives, and nobody can completely know the mind of another. At least nobody among us regular mortals.

I didn't imply unhappiness, only a spirit of skepticism with everything that is not 100% evident. If one needs a perfect world to live in, an explanation for everything, then one will never settle into anything spiritual. It I believe explains why a large majority of people when they leave the church, they become atheist. They have developed a need for convincing proof and it can not be found in the religious world... hence faith

On the whole, I think there are relatively few people who would agree that the evidence is equal on both sides.

Not equal but completely lopsided either. I think most people on this board or those who can't leave mormonism alone see the posibility that they are wrong and the church is true. I think I for example always have seen the evidence as tipping the scale in favor of this being the Lord's living church. Others may see it the other way, but very few of us see it so clear cut in the negative or else we likely wouldn't be here unless we just flat out hated the church and wanted to fight against it..... and even in that I see Ex-Mormons who fight so hard because there is still an inkling of "It could still be the true church".

But even if you're correct about that, I disagree with your assertion that it's the main reason for those who lose belief to stay engaged with the church in some way. Like it or not, Mormonism is much more than just its theology. It's our families, it's our community, it's a large part of our culture, and it gets into us. All that doesn't just go away with a change of beliefs. Those who leave the church have their own individual ways of dealing with its effect on them, but I think it's completely unrealistic to expect that they would be able to just quit whole hog and never think about the church again

If a scroll was found tomorrow proven authentic that said in Mayan "Jacob, brother of Nephi, son of Lehi... they would be lining up. I could be wrong but the church forces us to split hairs on amounts of evidence on each side.

Please don't take my tone in any way, just speaking from the hip. not out to upset. Please continue to disagree if you see cause, as I love discussion

Good to hear from you Mitotic Slime

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No worries, DB. I'm definitely not upset, just thought I'd give my two cents.

I didn't imply unhappiness, only a spirit of skepticism with everything that is not 100% evident. If one needs a perfect world to live in, an explanation for everything, then one will never settle into anything spiritual. It I believe explains why a large majority of people when they leave the church, they become atheist. They have developed a need for convincing proof and it can not be found in the religious world... hence faith

That is different from how I originally interpreted your comment, and it does make more sense.

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Congratulations...I'm happy that you've been able to reach a comfortable conclusion with the issues that were plaguing you. Throughout the years I too was able to come to these periods of restful comfort by ignoring the issues that didn’t add up in my mind, placing them on a really large mental shelf and using faith to salve the wounds and bridge the abyss between skepticism and knowledge.

I’m sure that you will get many months, maybe even years, of peace by ignoring these issues or beating down your inherent BS meter…your innate human skepticism.

However…

While you may achieve some peace for a while…ignoring these issues or merely using faith will not resolve these matters nor make them disappear…as Thomas Edison once stated…. “For faith, as well intentioned as it may be, must be built on facts, not fiction - faith in fiction is a damnable false hope." Faith can be used as the drug of choice to deaden the pain these problems create…but it cannot make the problems go away. The relief felt will only be short lived.

If these issues could be resolved they would be. If there was a good manner to explain away these difficulties and built in conflicts the church would do so. But oft times the very explanations used to explain away these difficulties is even more twisted and unbelievable than the very events that the church is attempting to explain away.

As a former Bishopric member (I was never a bishop) and high councilman, I completely sympathize with your plight. You are in a difficult predicament.

I really wish you all the best and do hope that exercising faith as a means to resolve these many issues works for you…it never did…at least not in any meaningful lasting manner…work for me.

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Shelving issues is not ignoring issues. The former assumes they will be picked up in the future with more experience and maturity.

Constantly picking at the rough edges of knowledge is a way of avoiding our own shortcomings and need to grow.

The real way to truth is to obey the knowledge we have to come closer to God - the author of truth. (D&C 121)

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If these issues could be resolved they would be. If there was a good manner to explain away these difficulties and built in conflicts the church would do so. But oft times the very explanations used to explain away these difficulties is even more twisted and unbelievable than the very events that the church is attempting to explain away.

Paxton - a couple of questions for you, first - What do you know to be true?

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Shelving issues is not ignoring issues. The former assumes they will be picked up in the future with more experience and maturity.

Constantly picking at the rough edges of knowledge is a way of avoiding our own shortcomings and need to grow.

The real way to truth is to obey the knowledge we have to come closer to God - the author of truth. (D&C 121)

And sometimes...the real way to truth...is to just accept that when things don't add up....they just don't add up...

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And sometimes...the real way to truth...is to just accept that when things don't add up....they just don't add up...

...and of course there is no shortage of people who will point fingers and mock at those who still believe in silly things like Mormonism.

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Paxton - a couple of questions for you, first - What do you know to be true?

Are we talking about absolute empirical truth? There are many empirical truths I know absolutaly...

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Within the realm of spirituality or religion - what do you know for sure?

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...and of course there is no shortage of people who will point fingers and mock at those who still believe in silly things like Mormonism.

KevinG...no mocking or pointing fingers...just making a statement

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For the record... I love the avatar pictures we are each allowed. Cinepro's yoda, paxtons old fashioned china mask, cwald's alien... they are great... makes me picture a face and I know I am likely way way off......

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KevinG...no mocking or pointing fingers...just making a statement

Then why react if it doesn't apply to you?

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Within the realm of spirituality or religion - what do you know for sure?

I know this for sure...but freely acknowledge that I could be wrong...so I guess I'm admitting up front that I don't know anything for sure when it comes to spirituallity or religion...because religion lives in that squishy atmosphere between fact and fiction...but I guess its safe to say that religion (pick one) can't all be what they claim...

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