Okrahomer Posted June 16, 2011 Share Posted June 16, 2011 We listened to an excellent Sacrament talk Sunday. The topic was "Forgiveness." The speaker referred to several BYU speeches of the Year, including this one On Measuring Flour and Forgiveness. Among other excellent quotes, the speaker recited a very moving poem called "Forgiveness Flour" by Maguerite Stewart. Does anyone know anything about her?When I went to the door, at the whisper of knocking,I saw Simeon Gantner's daughter, Kathleen, standingThere, in her shawl and her shame, sent to ask"Forgiveness Flour" for her bread. "Forgiveness Flour,"We call it in our corner. If one has erred, oneIs sent to ask for flour of his neighbors. If they loan itTo him, that means he can stay, but if they refuse, he hadBest take himself off. I looked at Kathleen . . .What a jewel of a daughter, though not much like herFather, more's the pity. "I'll give you flour," ISaid, and went to measure it. Measuring was the rub.If I gave too much, neighbors would think I made sinEasy, but if I gave too little, they would label me"Close." While I stood measuring, Joel, my husbandCame in from the mill, a great bag of flour on hisShoulder, and seeing her there, shrinking in theDoorway, he tossed the bag at her feet. "Here, takeAll of it." And so she had flour for many loaves,While I stood measuring.[Marguerite Stewart, "Forgiveness Flour," Religious Studies Center Newsletter 7, no. 3 (May 1993): 1] 2 Link to comment
mercyngrace Posted June 16, 2011 Share Posted June 16, 2011 Thank you so much for posting this, Okrahomer. I wouldn't have found it otherwise and would've missed out.It's a beautiful address. Link to comment
Okrahomer Posted June 17, 2011 Author Share Posted June 17, 2011 Thank you so much for posting this, Okrahomer. I wouldn't have found it otherwise and would've missed out.It's a beautiful address.You're welcome! This idea of "measuring" forgiveness really hits home--right between the eyes. Link to comment
emeliza Posted June 17, 2011 Share Posted June 17, 2011 You're welcome! This idea of "measuring" forgiveness really hits home--right between the eyes.Yes, thank you also. I haven't been on the board much and am glad I stopped by to catch up a bit. This is good. Link to comment
ERMD Posted June 18, 2011 Share Posted June 18, 2011 Excellent. I made copies of this to give to some people with whom I am presently working who have been wronged by a spouse. Link to comment
Messenger Posted June 18, 2011 Share Posted June 18, 2011 I like it. Thanks for sharing. Link to comment
Calm Posted June 19, 2011 Share Posted June 19, 2011 (edited) While not on the topic of forgiveness, I was reminded of this thread when I came across this story as it contains the same idea of incorporating Christlike principles into our very being so that we don't even have to think about what is good to do or how it makes us appear, but just do it naturally: At the very end of the essay, Nibley described his own relationship to the Brethren in a story about Spencer W. Kimball. Nibley traveled with Elder Kimball to a stake conference in Arizona one weekend as an emissary of BYU. During a train stop in Los Angeles, Nibley characteristically visited a bookshop near the station and purchased what he described as a ten-volume set of "a very rare collection, of Alfonsus De Lingorio, the seventeenth-century Redemptorist writer on probabilism." Rushing back to catch the train, lugging his ten volumes, Nibley had to cross an empty lot. When he settled into his seat, Elder Kimball noticed that Nibley's shoes and trousers were covered with dust. What happened next left an impression on the scholar.Brother Kimball casually took an immaculate linen handkerchief from the breast pocket of his jacket, and, stooping over, vigorously dusted off my shoes and trousers. It was the most natural thing in the world, and we both took it completely for granted. After all, my shoes were dusty in the race for the train, and Brother Kimball had always told missionaries to keep themselves clean and proper. It was no great thing—pas d'histoire. Neither of us said a thing about it, but ever since, that has conditioned my attitude toward the Brethren.44http://maxwellinstit...19&num=1&id=504 Edited June 19, 2011 by calmoriah Link to comment
Okrahomer Posted June 22, 2011 Author Share Posted June 22, 2011 While not on the topic of forgiveness, I was reminded of this thread when I came across this story as it contains the same idea of incorporating Christlike principles into our very being so that we don't even have to think about what is good to do or how it makes us appear, but just do it naturally:http://maxwellinstit...19&num=1&id=504Thank you for sharing this, Cal. It reminds me of certain individuals I have known in whose countenance Christ is apparent."Though I speak with the tongues of men and of angels, and have not charity, I am become as sounding brass, or a tinkling cymbal." Link to comment
Jigglysaint Posted June 22, 2011 Share Posted June 22, 2011 (edited) The answer to any problem is to throw enough stuff at something until it stops moving. Yes I devolved a profound poem into a "mash buttons" analogy. In this case you just enough throw flour at someone and hope it's enough to make them feel better about whatever they did.That being said, if Heavenly Father was a boss in an RPG, he'd constantly be spamming the "forgiveness" attack. Hopefully we didn't cast "shield of self pity" first.Edit: While I do poke fun, I do fully understand the concept of the poem. After all, how many of us only look for "just enough" forgiveness to get by on and instead we are given so much that we don't know what to do with? Edited June 22, 2011 by Jigglysaint Link to comment
Okrahomer Posted June 22, 2011 Author Share Posted June 22, 2011 The answer to any problem is to throw enough stuff at something until it stops moving. Yes I devolved a profound poem into a "mash buttons" analogy. In this case you just enough throw flour at someone and hope it's enough to make them feel better about whatever they did.That being said, if Heavenly Father was a boss in an RPG, he'd constantly be spamming the "forgiveness" attack. Hopefully we didn't cast "shield of self pity" first.Edit: While I do poke fun, I do fully understand the concept of the poem. After all, how many of us only look for "just enough" forgiveness to get by on and instead we are given so much that we don't know what to do with?Thank you for your thoughts, Jiggleysaint. (Great name by the way. ) I claim neither training nor talent for poetry, so I apologize if this one is trite or otherwise poorly conceived. For some reason, I was moved by it. Probably because I had never heard it before, and also because I find it personally difficult to so freely forgive, i.e., without measuring. The idea of flour for making loaves of bread connects with me--conjuring wonderful childhood memories (Is there anything like the smell of homemade bread?!) But it works on a deeper level for me as well, reminding me of the "bread of life." Link to comment
Okrahomer Posted June 22, 2011 Author Share Posted June 22, 2011 Excellent. I made copies of this to give to some people with whom I am presently working who have been wronged by a spouse.I would love to know (of course in vague terms) how this eventually turns out. Link to comment
Jigglysaint Posted June 22, 2011 Share Posted June 22, 2011 Thank you for your thoughts, Jiggleysaint. (Great name by the way. ) I claim neither training nor talent for poetry, so I apologize if this one is trite or otherwise poorly conceived. For some reason, I was moved by it. Probably because I had never heard it before, and also because I find it personally difficult to so freely forgive, i.e., without measuring. The idea of flour for making loaves of bread connects with me--conjuring wonderful childhood memories (Is there anything like the smell of homemade bread?!) But it works on a deeper level for me as well, reminding me of the "bread of life."*hands you a sack of forgiveness flour*That's for spelling my name wrong, Link to comment
alter idem Posted June 22, 2011 Share Posted June 22, 2011 Okrahomer, thank you for posting this. I have heard it used a couple of times over the years in talks and I felt it was profound. I am happy now to have it to print out and keep--and thank you Calmoriah for your contribution as well--I will save it as well.Both were very moving and well worth keeping.It's contributions like these that keep me coming back here. Link to comment
Okrahomer Posted June 22, 2011 Author Share Posted June 22, 2011 *hands you a sack of forgiveness flour*That's for spelling my name wrong, Jigglysaint! I thank you for the "flour"-- heaven knows I need it! Link to comment
Jigglysaint Posted June 25, 2011 Share Posted June 25, 2011 Jigglysaint! I thank you for the "flour"-- heaven knows I need it!You spelt "kneed" wrong. Link to comment
Nathair/|\ Posted June 25, 2011 Share Posted June 25, 2011 You spelt "kneed" wrong.Yeah, those bags of flour can be pretty heavy, don't want to lift with your back. Then, when it's time to use it, he will want to Knead it. Link to comment
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