I'm writing this post outside of the forum just in case the bot check wants to check me and blow my post away.
This discussion has been extremely instructional to me. I thank the several articulate female voices here that have demonstrated to me what they are trying to say when such phrases as "all men are potential rapists" are used. You have flipped a switch, as it were, in my thinking. Like Smac, I too, retracted into a defensive position. “That's a provocative, unfair and prejudicial statement!” Yes, it is! That’s the point! I think it is meant, among other things, to get our attention. It got Smac’s attention. It got my attention.
The thought came to my mind that a woman’s collective default mentality to exercise caution towards all men stems from the trauma of generations of abuse and harm suffered at the hands of men. It’s a function of an evolutional necessity for survival. It’s written into their DNA! And so, I feel absolutely no want nor justification to push back against it. In fact, it’s just the opposite. I have had an overwhelming sense of collective guilt, if you will, for the suffering that my gender has inflicted on women through out the ages. Scars that are so deep that only the actions of infinite loving God can heal and rectify.