EllenMaksoud Posted April 3, 2013 Posted April 3, 2013 I first saw Avatar in Early 2010, and discovered that in spite of my many years of doing things that really frightening regularly, when the cloud scenes happened, I screamed and looked away, too frightened to look. In the next few months I went with various people to see the movie in 3D perhaps 5 times. It completely captured my imagination. It looked like the best imitation of Heaven man could craft. I hadn't met the Mormons yet.These days every day in my past has foot notes saying whether I had met the Mormons yet. As I write this I almost want to think, in a manner of speaking that my pre Mormon days were sort of like BC and after sort of like AC.Early in those days, I was taught about not listening to music or movies that had swear words, and though I did not think about it much, I now realize that Lady Gaga, ZZ Top, and Queen have dropped out of my universe.So, tonight I decided to watch Avatar once in 2013 and in looking at the CD set I have there is a version that is 13 minutes longer. So as I watched the long version of the movie, I heard the characters swearing quite a lot in certain sections. It made me sad for a moment when I realized that I will never watch the extended version again out of deference to the wishes of Heavenly Father. He saved me through Jesus Christ and I want my respect and thankfulness to always be evident in my life.I have the gentle people of the Wasatch to thank for helping me see a new way. 4
Peppermint Patty Posted April 3, 2013 Posted April 3, 2013 Ellen,You will find that many Mormons enjoy the music of Queen, ZZ Top, Lady Gaga and many other artists in many genres. I commend you on your self-control when it comes to watching movies. Don't be too surprised when you happen to meet many good LDS that have no problem watching certain PG13, or R rated movies.We come in all shapes and sizes.
Nathair/|\ Posted April 3, 2013 Posted April 3, 2013 If something offends your conscience, don't be afraid to avoid it, even if your Stake President or Temple President is comfortable participating.
thesometimesaint Posted April 4, 2013 Posted April 4, 2013 The occasional swear word doesn't bother me. I can't imagine a John Wayne type saying "Oh goshy darn" when something really bad happens. But I draw the line when it happens more than on a few rare occasions. 1
Tacenda Posted April 7, 2013 Posted April 7, 2013 http://www.deseretnews.com/article/765626083/Al-Fox-Tattooed-Mormon.htmlWhen I saw this I thought of you, not that you have tattoos but that she also is a convert and some may look at her kind of funny, and with you it's that you might wear the hijab or scarf. I just thought you might like this read. Sorry that I used this OP for it. Maybe I should have looked for another thread that you've started. Take care!
Stargazer Posted April 7, 2013 Posted April 7, 2013 The occasional swear word doesn't bother me. I can't imagine a John Wayne type saying "Oh goshy darn" when something really bad happens. But I draw the line when it happens more than on a few rare occasions.I spent 8 lovely years in the US Army, and you can imagine that at times I got to hear quite a lot of swear words. After a while it became kind of "white noise". I used profanity very seldom, and it was always pretty mild profanity. The D word and the H word. Only once after a particularly bad experience did I explode into some really scorching verbiage -- a five minute tirade over something my immediate superior had done that really torqued me off. Afterwards, one of my troops said to me: "Damn, Sergeant Clark, I never heard you swear before!" To which I responded very sheepishly that it was last time, too. It wasn't, as it happened, but this incident stood out in my memory for years. I felt really ashamed of myself. 1
Stargazer Posted April 7, 2013 Posted April 7, 2013 http://www.deseretne...oed-Mormon.htmlWhen I saw this I thought of you, not that you have tattoos but that she also is a convert and some may look at her kind of funny, and with you it's that you might wear the hijab or scarf. I just thought you might like this read. Sorry that I used this OP for it. Maybe I should have looked for another thread that you've started. Take care!Thanks for posting that! Really cool, for sure.
thesometimesaint Posted April 7, 2013 Posted April 7, 2013 I spent 8 lovely years in the US Army, and you can imagine that at times I got to hear quite a lot of swear words. After a while it became kind of "white noise". I used profanity very seldom, and it was always pretty mild profanity. The D word and the H word. Only once after a particularly bad experience did I explode into some really scorching verbiage -- a five minute tirade over something my immediate superior had done that really torqued me off. Afterwards, one of my troops said to me: "Damn, Sergeant Clark, I never heard you swear before!" To which I responded very sheepishly that it was last time, too. It wasn't, as it happened, but this incident stood out in my memory for years. I felt really ashamed of myself.I was like Sgt Clark. But still no excuses. One of my many failings.
altersteve Posted April 7, 2013 Posted April 7, 2013 I swear very rarely but only when I'm very angry (which isn't very often) or when I accidentally hurt myself (a bit more common). Never around children or my family though.
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