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#1 Pa Pa

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Posted 13 June 2012 - 01:09 PM

Going on week 4 weeks with the broken back...and going nuts. Have not even started rehab. Feels like I am in prison. Suggestions?

Edited by Pa Pa, 14 June 2012 - 03:15 AM.

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Posted 13 June 2012 - 01:34 PM

Hello Pa Pa...

Writing... journal and poetry...

Crossword puzzles

Books on Tape

Get book: Drawing on the Right Side of the Brain (a couple of pencils and a drawing pad)
  and do the exercises (you'll be amazed at your untapped ability).

Rent good movies (mostly oldies) although some I liked recently: Secretariat; Extremely Close and Incredibly  Loud;  Robin Hood (Russell Crowe); The King's Speech; Amistad; Dave (Kevin Kline); Hoosiers; Elizabeth (Cate Blanchett); and the sequel Elizabeth, The Golden Age.  All good stories.

Good luck...

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Posted 13 June 2012 - 02:10 PM

View PostGarden Girl, on 13 June 2012 - 01:34 PM, said:

Hello Pa Pa...

Writing... journal and poetry...

Crossword puzzles

Books on Tape

Get book: Drawing on the Right Side of the Brain (a couple of pencils and a drawing pad)
  and do the exercises (you'll be amazed at your untapped ability).

Rent good movies (mostly oldies) although some I liked recently: Secretariat; Extremely Close and Incredibly  Loud;  Robin Hood (Russell Crowe); The King's Speech; Amistad; Dave (Kevin Kline); Hoosiers; Elizabeth (Cate Blanchett); and the sequel Elizabeth, The Golden Age.  All good stories.

Good luck...

GG

I feel for you.  Inactivity of this sort is the worst thing to go through for me.  By now you have not only counted the spiders on the ceiling you have named them and are holding conversations with a few of them.  One suggestion I might offer is to pick a topic and research it thoroughly.  I find that can be time consuming and entertaining not to mention educational.  Hope you mend soon.

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Posted 13 June 2012 - 02:21 PM

Sorry to hear about your back. I've been there, still messed up. I read every novel that I could get my hands on.
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Posted 13 June 2012 - 05:00 PM

I've had surgery a few times and been laid up for six weeks after each one, post-op.  I wish I could tell you how I did it, but I've got no secrets.  (Perhaps my secret is that I didn't stay sane! )  It's no fun, I know that.  I wish you well.
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Posted 13 June 2012 - 05:12 PM

Perhaps listen to some audio books, pray and mediate through scriptures, call people and catch up with those you have may have lost touched with.  Man my heart goes out to you.
Matthew 22:36-40 Teacher, which is the greatest commandment in the Law? Jesus replied Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind  This is the first and greatest commandment. And the second is like it; Love your neighbor as yourself.

Hebrews 7:24- 25 24 but because Jesus lives forever, he has a permanent priesthood. 25 Therefore he is able to save completely those who come to God through him, because he always lives to intercede for them.

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Posted 13 June 2012 - 09:22 PM

Exercise whatever area you can,even if it just your hands. You will need as much of your body in shape as you can in order to deal with the muscles that have been weakened due to lack of use. Just squeezing a tennis ball as you watch TV will help.

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Posted 13 June 2012 - 10:17 PM

So sorry, Papa.

I see someone has already suggested audio books, which was going to be my suggestion.  Looks like you've gotten a lot of good suggestions here (if you are able to use your arms).  Prayers for a quick recovery.

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Posted 13 June 2012 - 11:59 PM

I am sending prayers for you as well, my friend. I can't even imagine being on your back for that long. Anything you can listen to that will uplift you, and remind you that Heavenly Father is trying your faith.

In some ways, this could be considered a Job moment for you. You're facing terrible trials all around, and the most important thing in all of it: how will you respond in the face of such things?

When you face what could possibly be one of the worst physical trials of your life (I can't think of much worse than a broken back, and being severely restricted for a very extended period), the true nature of who you are will be revealed.

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Posted 14 June 2012 - 04:48 PM

Ask your priesthood leaders for a list of all those who weren't home taught the previous month or maybe for several months.  You call and talk with them.

If you can type here, you can do family search indexing.

Bet you a dollar that there is some other home bound person in your congregation who would love to exchange jokes.

You could probably arrange for a student who needs help with reading to come visit you so  you could tutor him/her from your bed.

Oragami mailed to children or grown ups who need cheering up?

Have you sent a pass along card to all your high school friends and told them about the joy the gospel has brought  you and how sorry  you didn't share it with them as a teen (if you were converted later, because you didn't know them).

Have you written your bucket list?

Have you written all the thank you notes that you should have written over the years?

You should be able to sing, or dictate your personal and family history.

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Posted 14 June 2012 - 04:59 PM

View Postrodheadlee, on 13 June 2012 - 02:21 PM, said:

Sorry to hear about your back. I've been there, still messed up. I read every novel that I could get my hands on.
There are online libraries as well as the gutenberg project (IIRC) that have a number of novels, especially classics available for reading.

All the original oz books and the scarlet pimpernel series are online, for example.
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Posted 14 June 2012 - 06:00 PM

Just hoping to send you a little of encouragement....Blessings




Matthew 22:36-40 Teacher, which is the greatest commandment in the Law? Jesus replied Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind  This is the first and greatest commandment. And the second is like it; Love your neighbor as yourself.

Hebrews 7:24- 25 24 but because Jesus lives forever, he has a permanent priesthood. 25 Therefore he is able to save completely those who come to God through him, because he always lives to intercede for them.

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Posted 15 June 2012 - 07:31 PM

Oh, I forgot Ted.com , and khanacademy.com or org

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Posted 17 June 2012 - 01:16 PM

Praying for strength and encouragement for you today. "Strength will rise as we wait upon the Lord"


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Matthew 22:36-40 Teacher, which is the greatest commandment in the Law? Jesus replied Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind  This is the first and greatest commandment. And the second is like it; Love your neighbor as yourself.

Hebrews 7:24- 25 24 but because Jesus lives forever, he has a permanent priesthood. 25 Therefore he is able to save completely those who come to God through him, because he always lives to intercede for them.

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Posted 19 June 2012 - 06:11 AM

View Postfollowerofemmanuel, on 17 June 2012 - 01:16 PM, said:

Praying for strength and encouragement for you today. "Strength will rise as we wait upon the Lord"


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Posted 19 June 2012 - 07:24 PM

View Postcalmoriah, on 14 June 2012 - 04:59 PM, said:

There are online libraries as well as the gutenberg project (IIRC) that have a number of novels, especially classics available for reading.

All the original oz books and the scarlet pimpernel series are online, for example.

The Scarlet Pimpernel would be fun to read, as would the Brigadier Gerard. When I was extreme ill before my mission Alexandre Dumas got me through it.
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Posted 19 June 2012 - 11:06 PM

Here ya go, Papa.  There are hundreds of free ebooks on this site.

http://www.gutenberg.org/

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Posted 26 June 2012 - 07:57 PM

How are you doing PaPa?  Any improvements?  Anything specific that we can be praying for you?
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Posted 26 June 2012 - 08:44 PM

View Postvolgadon, on 19 June 2012 - 07:24 PM, said:

The Scarlet Pimpernel would be fun to read, as would the Brigadier Gerard. When I was extreme ill before my mission Alexandre Dumas got me through it.
Alexandre Dumas- The Black Tulip.   One of my all time favourite books.
The Scarlet Pimpernel....Papa that would be a fun read.

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Posted 27 June 2012 - 11:16 AM

View Postfollowerofemmanuel, on 26 June 2012 - 07:57 PM, said:

How are you doing PaPa?  Any improvements?  Anything specific that we can be praying for you?
Turns out broken in two places...could have to have surgery. If so we will lose the home, will be out of work for months. Already lost my job.
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