Okay, as someone who’s mixed race and was raised by my non Caucasian mom, I have my own opinions. In life my father was very much the stereotype of someone who gets a non-Caucasian spouse, entitled, violent and alcoholic. As horrible as he was to us, his own siblings were worse. Only white first cousin I had was ruined by my father’s brother. He was on every drug under the sun and died of skin cancer years ago. The father is now in a nursing home, his daughter won’t raise a finger because there’s no money in it. His sister (here’s the real irony…) cooked up a bogus mental illness story as a kid so she wouldn’t have to work (Their father spoiled her rotten) and has bounced from facility to facility. Here’s the irony with that one, father’s side is protestant yet it was Catholic Charities and places staffed by nuns she went to. The rest of that side is pretty much like your typical Caucasian American family now, entitled, disrespectful and destroying themselves.
Here’s what I’ve noticed about a lot of Caucasian families here, they give their kids the boot at 18 and provided the kids don’t end up homeless they remember being treated poorly and do nothing when their aged parents need help. I see it all the time in my line of work, the parents are often abandoned. You can ask residents where their kids are and sometimes they’ll be honest and say they treated them poorly. I know my father wanted to give me the boot at 18, despite his parents spoiling him rotten and letting him back in after he tried to assault his own father. My mom even brought that up to him and typical boomer response, that was then this is now, I don’t care. Also, look at the meds they shove down kid’s throats, especially males. I saw it all the time growing up and from what I hear from young parents, it’s even worse now. Now, mom’s side? Far as I can tell to this day none of em have ever been put on meds, the parents do their job. Also, the extended family helps out. That’s still common in Hawaii vs. here. My aunties kids are doing stellar in school and work their backsides off vs. my father’s side whom always seem to have an excuse as to why they’re having issues with their kids. They blame society, video games, social media; everyone but themselves. They always have excuses yet no solutions to their problems. Even in churches I went to I would see the same thing, excuses yet no solutions, they always wanted to outsource their jobs as parents to society yet would complain to no end when their kids end up messed up. I know a lot of kids get spoiled rotten, still I've seen similar patterns of disfunction. There's a joke among minority students in HS, inside every white kid a shooter waiting to come out. One has to wonder...
I know not all Caucasian families are like that, yet when you look at the data from the CDC on drug abuse and suicide you see disturbing trends.
Suicide has always been high for natives, no surprise there. Still, look at Caucasian stats, let’s face it for the longest time WASP’s were the dominant force in the USA, decades of family dysfunction, drugs and the ever shrinking safety net has taken its toll.
Take this for what it’s worth, as someone who had to grow up in poverty thanks to my father’s violence and alcoholism plus the racism I had to see my mom go through as a kid, yeah I’ve always had a slant on things, still I think I’ve tried to be unbiased here, I hope. Those CDC links are scary, that and far as I can tell the population here doesn’t seem to want to do anything to clean up the mess they had a hand in making. Look at the homelessness we see everywhere now, it’s mostly white males. Follow the symptoms and draw your own conclusions.
Also wanted to add, as far as I know this whole transgender thing is more of a western phenomenon, this stuff doesn't fly in a lot of the non western world, Japan still has transgender people sterilized.