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  1. Thank you all. I have felt the prayers of many. Just when it seems discouraging and that she won't do well, it works out. Her heart softens, she has a good experience or feels better. That has been a great blessing.
  2. My daughter was reassigned to a be a Spanish speaker in California. She just found out today after reporting to the missionary department that she was having problems with Crohn`s disease. She is doing better on treatment and seems to be at peace with it all. Thought you all should know as you were pretty supportive
  3. I hate MLM. Every one has a brother or sister-in-law who does this kind of thing or comes to you with every new diet, health food, supplements, essential oils, etc. as a know it all. They are in my family. If you tell one of your family no once, it will never happen again. Word gets out. The same thing happens if you turn a family member down to loan them money. No one in the family will ask again.
  4. My daughter does indeed have Crohn`s Disease and has been on oral corticosteroids for about 5 days. She is starting to do much better. Her garments had come off because of the diarrhea and bloating. At least she wore them yesterday. Some of the positive blessings such as being diagnosed early and being at home instead of school or a mission have been brought up by her. What is surprising is how badly she wants to go on a mission, but how little she is doing as far as reading the scriptures or praying. We were going to take her to do initiatory work, but she declined to go with us. She is meeting with the stake president tomorrow. We are hoping that helps. Her name is on the temple roll and we pray for her all the time. She is a pretty petulant child right now. My wife had surgery 10 days ago, so I am the “healthy” one right now. August was a rotten month for me. Here’s to September being an improvement.
  5. Never boring around my house. My daughter was waiting to go into the MTC in mid-November. She has had abdominal problems and diarrhea for about 6-8 weeks. Right after she got her call they developed. The work up is pointing to inflammatory bowel disease such as Crohn`s or Ulcerative Colitis. A colonoscopy is scheduled for Wednesday morning. She is wondering why God would call her on a mission and then let her get sick. We don’t know if she can go on a mission or not given the circumstances. Certainly not a country without good medical care. So we are praying and she got a blessing tonite.
  6. Well, thanks every one. The meeting with my partners when much better than I thought. It’s not over yet, but I will update as to the decisions I end up making and how it goes.
  7. So, I am now about nine months into my diagnosis of chronic leukemia. Not much has changed as far as my health and I am grateful for that. I saw a CLL specialist at the Huntsman Cancer Center and will still wait for treatment. My youngest son got married at the end of June and my youngest daughter is going on a mission in November. I feel a number of losses and so many changes. When our ward was split the bishop asked me to be released from the bishopric and be the ward mission leader. Trying to figure that out. Of all the stress that I experience right now, the most severe is from work. I am part of a big business and the other owners are younger and can be naive as well as impulsive. They might be so demanding that our manager may leave. I seem to be the glue that holds it together and I just want to have peace and quiet. When I went to the temple the strong impression I got was that I need to get control of my life. If I retired tomorrow a business that I built might just fall apart. I have tried to set an example of how to be an owner and grow talent. One partner in particular is micromanaging our manager to death. He’s also very critical and constantly trying to “fix” things. The other owners bring talent and good qualities as well. You can imagine sitting in a meeting and just thinking “I have cancer, good luck with the mess you have created.” So, I am trying to get control of my life. I know the problems that I am explaining are that of business and not exactly the same that the every day person has to face. It has always been a challenge to live the gospel and run an organization. Ethics constantly tested. Thanks for the rant. Not sure who else to talk to.
  8. By the way I like the training and think with it and other recent changes that “they are enough.”
  9. I am getting ready to send my youngest daughter on a mission so I don’t like seeing these statistics. In my own life, someone from my high school class died three weeks after graduation so I know it happens. Young people are not supposed to die though.
  10. As a WML I see many missionaries. That had their district meetings at my house as an example. There are many that are overweight. The problem, especially for the sisters (in my experience) is that they go to the doctor often. They just seem to be sick more, like ten doctors visits in eight weeks. Mental health problems are more prominent than overweight problems though. I wish I had a dime for every time the word anxiety and missionary were used in the same sentence.
  11. My wife is teaching early morning seminary for the second year. They were asked last year to give a summary and recommendation for all of their students applying to BYU schools. They seem to have to give that response in October or November. Being their first year, they didn’t always know how good of a student they were and they were acting fine at the time. Several girls started acting very snotty and goofing off after their recommendations were done. She called BYU in January to ask if she could change recommendations and was told that she could. She then had a talk with the students and their parents. The families handled it differently with most very embarrassed by their kids behavior. One gave a bunch of excuses. My wife got high marks from her students and loves them. She doesn’t want to give any a bad recommendation, but she almost did. My own pet peeve is kids becoming inactive at a Church school. My oldest son did that and I told him he should withdraw and we spoke to the elders quorum president about his inactivity. He still graduated so I am assuming the bishop let it go. I also assume that their education costs 30 to 40 thousand per year, perhaps 90 percent subsidized. My youngest daughter had four roommates go inactive the second semester. She would show up with her other roommate to church and family night. No guarantees after you graduate about your behavior or even a mission for that matter. It is not right to continue going to a Church school with a poor attitude or inactivity and I think the Church has a right to try and get the kids who will be the most successful in helping to prepare the earth for Jesus second coming and gathering scattered Israel. The argument here probably comes down to how those kids can be chosen. My BYU education was a real blessing for me and helped immensely in getting my.graduate education.
  12. I really enjoyed this talk. The same with most of the articles or podcasts I hear and the Living Faith series of books they have published with Deseret. Its a different intellectual exercise with the Maxwell Insitute now. There aren't defenses of the faith in classic FARMS like manner. Hope and faith are explored in an intellectual atmosphere. It seems similar to the Joseph Smith Papers. Apologetics is still useful and there is a place for them. Hopefully the old links to FARMS material will be restored to be more available. I guess I like my old cake and my new cake. I eat both of them.
  13. I only have my stake and the missionaries that serve in my area to go from. It seems like about 75% of those returning home early are for medical reasons. The medical reason in the majority of cases is for mental health. I too hear about anxiety over and over again among the missionaries. I think some of the anxiety and depression is probably medical or familial. 15-20% of the population has depression and anxiety severely enough that they need treatment with medication. How much of this depression/anxiety is situational or reactionary in nature? In other words not what would be typically considered medical. How much of this is preventable or could be prepared for? My experience among the sisters serving around in our area is that about 1 in 6 is returning home early. The better that they are treated and reintegrated into the ward, the better they seem to do over time. Specifically, a calling as soon as possible.
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